almost 9 months, should I put out? |
 Jul 21 2007, 03:40 PM
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I would be lying if I didn't say I want to go for 3rd base or for a home run but I was planning to try and restrain myself from a home run until college. The person I'm with brings stuff like foreplay and sex up a lot and I've gotten used to it as just talk and treat it that way. They tell me "8 months in, relationships that lasted this long have done more things then we have". There's some tension in the air and because I didn't give in and said yes when now they're seriously talking about doing stuff together. I'm now a repressed robot causing the person I'm with to be sexually frustrated I guess.
 My question to CB is, Do you think being sexually active is necessary? Do you think it helps a relationship stronger? My mind's a mess I don't know whether saying yes and doing stuff would just be giving in and being in the norm or if I'm really repressed and I should just jump in. 411==> I'm a incoming senior. Thanks to any replies. |
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Jul 28 2007, 03:56 PM
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 Sup. I'm Deb =] Group: Human Posts: 650 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,227 |
Honestly, I'd wait. If you think "we should have sex when we reach the 10 month mark", then, in a way it wouldn't mean much. Don't just do it to "do it".
I've been with my boyfriend for around 2 years now, and I haven't "put out" yet. The way I see it, I'm just a kid (I'm 16 and he's 17), a little too "immature" for that stuff yet, and just...can't see myself having sex. Don't get me wrong, I love him, trust him, am content him, and all that stuff. We have chemistry like whoa too. But... yeah. Like I said despite all that, 2 years later and I'm just not ready for that yet. Luckily he understands and isn't pressuring me. If half the thoughts going through your mind when you think of your relationship with him is "should I have sex with him now?", then I think that you should wait. Let it come naturally. You'll know when you're ready. Most likely when you are you just won't have to think about it too much. |
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fugu almost 9 months, should I put out? Jul 21 2007, 03:40 PM
popoberry well it doesn`t necessarily help all relations... Jul 21 2007, 03:43 PM Elba Yeah put out. And if you get pregnant, just have a... Jul 21 2007, 03:45 PM Moderator It doesn't necessarily strengthen the relation... Jul 21 2007, 03:47 PM shotgunFUNERAL i like how everything around here is based on time... Jul 21 2007, 03:49 PM
loveneko QUOTE(shotgunFUNERAL @ Jul 21 2007, 04:49... Jul 21 2007, 08:30 PM popoberry ahahha ^ Jul 21 2007, 04:15 PM jennypie Just keep this in mind: once you give it away you ... Jul 21 2007, 04:38 PM Tamacracker When it happens it happens =\
It'll flow... Jul 21 2007, 04:55 PM xburnoutx00 .....
Why are you asking if you should have sex wi... Jul 21 2007, 05:29 PM xSybarite QUOTE(xburnoutx00 @ Jul 21 2007, 03:29 PM... Aug 2 2007, 08:16 PM Sandraaa To me, being sexually active is very necessary. I ... Jul 21 2007, 05:32 PM courtn3y ^ Haha, true and if he can't dance then he isn... Jul 21 2007, 05:55 PM NatiMarie If they really care for you, they'll be willin... Jul 21 2007, 07:59 PM loveneko It doesn't make it stronger
You (the sexee), w... Jul 21 2007, 08:29 PM Beunique um if ur not ready and ur asking urself the questi... Jul 22 2007, 03:24 AM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(Moderator @ Jul 21 2007, 04:47 PM) ... Jul 22 2007, 08:49 AM Mercy I dont know what makes people think that having se... Jul 22 2007, 01:12 PM Joss-eh-lime if you feel pressured, its not the right time, or ... Jul 22 2007, 02:01 PM me1issaaaa If you have to ask, then no. Jul 22 2007, 02:28 PM steve330 Don't let time be a factor of when you have or... Jul 22 2007, 02:35 PM karmakiller If you're questioning whether or not you shoul... Jul 22 2007, 02:57 PM Brilliance if you dont do it soon, he will threaten to break ... Jul 22 2007, 06:11 PM falsetigerlimbs Well I don't necessarily think the answer to t... Jul 22 2007, 09:39 PM jeSs1cA i say.. whenever it happens, it happens. Jul 23 2007, 12:06 AM Angelina Taylor It's totally up to you. Nobody's going to ... Jul 23 2007, 09:58 AM Michelle It's your decision. We can't tell you what... Jul 23 2007, 01:12 PM false Butt doesn't count.
- CEP Jul 23 2007, 01:29 PM tooeffingcrazy Just have sex. You're going to be a slut anywa... Jul 23 2007, 03:20 PM HakunaMatata ^Wow, that was entirely unnecessary. Jul 23 2007, 03:55 PM tooeffingcrazy QUOTE(HakunaMatata @ Jul 23 2007, 03:55 P... Jul 23 2007, 04:05 PM fugu Gahaha thanks for the responses. It's great se... Jul 23 2007, 04:13 PM Castaway no. i don't care so much about that so if it h... Jul 25 2007, 08:00 PM KIDSISTER Just do it when you feel ready. If someone seem... Jul 25 2007, 08:28 PM Becks539 I see it like this...
If a guy keeps bringing it u... Jul 25 2007, 11:17 PM lomanasq Conent Removed. Jul 26 2007, 03:22 AM xFaith Strenghten is not the right word.
Complicate is. ... Jul 27 2007, 03:14 PM Jilian Celeste I don't think being sexually active is imperat... Jul 29 2007, 11:53 PM emazing People get caught up. Aug 2 2007, 06:26 PM SSJ Kenshin QUOTE(Shikamaru Nara)"Whatever happens, happe... Aug 2 2007, 06:36 PM x_curse_of_the_curves_x don't have sex until your ready period. it doe... Aug 2 2007, 09:07 PM |
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