No freedom=No Love? |
 Jul 25 2007, 11:49 PM
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I'm 20 years old...My mom still controls almost every bit of my life...I hate it, and it gets really frustrating at time...Mainly when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend...She's so afraid to let me go anywhere with him. Its nothing personal...She's met him and she likes him. Its just the fact that he's a guy that f**ks everything up. She's afraid that I might make a "mistake". I understand completely where she's coming from...She's actually my step-mom. Therefore, she feels as if anything happens to me, she'll get all the blame and everyone will think she did a bad job raising me...
What really kills me is that my boyfriend hates the fact that we barely get to see each other...I really don't want that to be the reason our relationship diminishes. |
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Jul 25 2007, 11:55 PM
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You're almost 21, which is like the legal age for doing anything. I think you should just sit your stepmother down and talk to her. Obviously, you're not a little kid anymore and she has to learn to accept that. You have to tell her what you told us. You have to inform her that she doesn't need to raise you anymore because you know what you're doing. She'll never know if you never speak up!
COMMUNICATION! Good luck. |
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Jul 26 2007, 12:35 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Your twenty, your not mamas little girl anymore. You need your space and freedom. Sit her down and talk with her, tell her everything you told us, tell her you know what your doing becuase she raised you good. She should trust you, your now an adult and you can make your own decisions.
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?Melina? No freedom=No Love? Jul 25 2007, 11:49 PM
Michelle Well, if you depend on your mother for financial s... Jul 25 2007, 11:54 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX Your twenty, your not mamas little girl anymore. Y... Jul 26 2007, 12:35 PM SinfullySweet Do you really love this person? If you do, I real... Jul 26 2007, 12:04 AM nosylilme You should talk to her about it. Tell her that she... Jul 26 2007, 12:04 AM resplendence you really need to talk to your mom. let her know ... Jul 26 2007, 12:04 AM lomanasq Content Removed Jul 26 2007, 03:12 AM Fist Show her that you're mature, can support yours... Jul 29 2007, 05:42 PM |
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