No freedom=No Love? |
 Jul 25 2007, 11:49 PM
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I'm 20 years old...My mom still controls almost every bit of my life...I hate it, and it gets really frustrating at time...Mainly when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend...She's so afraid to let me go anywhere with him. Its nothing personal...She's met him and she likes him. Its just the fact that he's a guy that f**ks everything up. She's afraid that I might make a "mistake". I understand completely where she's coming from...She's actually my step-mom. Therefore, she feels as if anything happens to me, she'll get all the blame and everyone will think she did a bad job raising me...
What really kills me is that my boyfriend hates the fact that we barely get to see each other...I really don't want that to be the reason our relationship diminishes. |
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Jul 26 2007, 12:04 AM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
you really need to talk to your mom. let her know that her controlling behavior is putting a strain on your relationship. also let her know that she's done a great job raising you and that now you are 20 years old, she should trust you to be an adult and make your own choices. |
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?Melina? No freedom=No Love? Jul 25 2007, 11:49 PM
Michelle Well, if you depend on your mother for financial s... Jul 25 2007, 11:54 PM Moderator You're almost 21, which is like the legal age ... Jul 25 2007, 11:55 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX Your twenty, your not mamas little girl anymore. Y... Jul 26 2007, 12:35 PM SinfullySweet Do you really love this person? If you do, I real... Jul 26 2007, 12:04 AM nosylilme You should talk to her about it. Tell her that she... Jul 26 2007, 12:04 AM lomanasq Content Removed Jul 26 2007, 03:12 AM Fist Show her that you're mature, can support yours... Jul 29 2007, 05:42 PM |
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