argg, am i supposed to trust him... |
 Jul 17 2007, 10:54 PM
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 wooo.....  Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,765  |
so last night, i was talking to one of my pretty good friends and he admitted to me that he's liked me since 6th grade [i'm a freshman now]. apparently, he never admitted/showed it to me because we're more...best friend like, but now we're going to different schools so he wants to tell me. i used to like him and i would still go out with him. perfect situation, right? wrong. he's one of the school's biggest players and i don't know if i should believe him when he says that he wants to go out because 1. he still has a girlfriend [he doesn't like her, and hes gonna break up with her] 2. the beginning of our conversation started as him saying, "let's hook up."
he's a really great guy, and he wouldn't lie to me...but i just don't know if i trust him on this. should i? |
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Jul 22 2007, 09:41 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
QUOTE well, by player, i mean he can get any girl he wants, and once he does, they do stuff. but he's never cheated or used a girl before, and typically, he doesn't "hook-up" Ok, so I am going to assume that he is a decent guy, but you just made him sound worse than he is with poor word choice. It's a mistake we all make...moving on. As everyone has said, you just have to think about this. How good of a guy friend is he to you? Is his friendship worth risking. And (something new to consider), do you like enough to jeopardize what you have for a relationship? From how you put it, it doesn't really sound like you really like him, you're just willing to go out with him because he asked you out. You say you USED to like him and you would go out with him...hmmmmm... That could also be poor word choice, but these are all things you just need to think about when you get yourself into this. |
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allboutme2987 argg Jul 17 2007, 10:54 PM
MyMichelle I think that you should just stay friends... consi... Jul 17 2007, 11:02 PM towntown2 "Let's hook up" is no way to start a... Jul 17 2007, 11:13 PM
yobaka3 QUOTE(towntown2 @ Jul 18 2007, 12:13 AM) ... Jul 17 2007, 11:43 PM allboutme2987 well its not that he just completely wanted me to ... Jul 17 2007, 11:28 PM towntown2 QUOTE(allboutme2987 @ Jul 17 2007, 09:28 ... Jul 18 2007, 12:30 AM allboutme2987 QUOTE(towntown2 @ Jul 17 2007, 11:30 PM) ... Jul 18 2007, 01:04 AM ambernoelnichols he doesn't sound trustworthy to me.
so if you ... Jul 18 2007, 01:06 AM allboutme2987 true, but since our friendship is on the verge of ... Jul 18 2007, 01:40 AM towntown2 QUOTE(allboutme2987 @ Jul 17 2007, 11:40 ... Jul 18 2007, 10:57 PM Beunique um if he's told u all his faults then why woul... Jul 18 2007, 11:08 AM inlovexxwithyou QUOTE(Beunique @ Jul 18 2007, 12:08 PM) u... Jul 18 2007, 03:19 PM S-Majere Wait a moment and think this through.
His idea of... Jul 18 2007, 03:42 PM Castaway you risk getting your heart broken in any relation... Jul 18 2007, 11:26 PM tr1pp1n DONT trust him. shit i dont even trust myself Jul 18 2007, 11:35 PM Moderator I don't think its a good idea. Alright; so let... Jul 18 2007, 11:49 PM allboutme2987 well, by player, i mean he can get any girl he wan... Jul 19 2007, 11:38 AM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(allboutme2987 @ Jul 17 2007, 11:54 ... Jul 19 2007, 12:16 PM courtn3y If he's a player, then dont. Jul 22 2007, 09:57 PM 1angel3 Give him a chance BUT be cautious. Take it slow. Jul 22 2007, 10:07 PM |
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