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babygirl321
post Jul 20 2007, 07:28 PM
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FIRST MOVE????
Should the guy make the first move?
the girl?
or does it matter?
 
 
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post Jul 22 2007, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jul 21 2007, 05:24 PM) *
I like people to ask me first.
Like, "Can I kiss you?"

If I say no, then it's a good thing that you didn't go for it. I would've pulled away from you, and if I reallllyyyy didn't like you--I would bite you.

If I say yes, then aren't you glad you asked? Then you don't have to worry about anything.


The whole asking thing ("Can I kiss you?") is okay I guess if you two aren't already dating, but if I'm dating someone and anticipating a kiss and its a nice moment and all and the guy ruins it by asking me instead of just growing a pair and going for it, I'd be more than a little annoyed (if you haven't guessed, this has happened to me more than once).

Anyway, usually I end up making the first move cause the guy ends up being too shy, but those relationships have all ended badly. The ones in which the other guy initiated the whole thing all work out better for me, which I guess proves that I'm more of a match with confident guys. It really all just depends.
 

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In Love!   Who Should   Jul 20 2007, 07:28 PM
stolen   I would say the guy, I guess since maybe guys want...   Jul 20 2007, 07:56 PM
popoberry   personally i`d say guy . but i think i made th...   Jul 20 2007, 07:59 PM
Castaway   it doesn't matter. i guess the guys usually ma...   Jul 20 2007, 09:50 PM
iNxfAtUAtEDX   i think girls should make it, most guys like when ...   Jul 20 2007, 10:23 PM
towntown2   I'd like the guy to make the first move.   Jul 20 2007, 10:32 PM
stephinika   Either way. Depends on the personalities of the tw...   Jul 21 2007, 02:53 AM
ojairus   one ,two, three, to the four, i am a pimp ,so i do...   Jul 21 2007, 03:01 AM
Rachel   It's whatever comes naturally. If you want to ...   Jul 21 2007, 03:07 AM
Sandraaa   It depends on the situation. Personally, I HATE wa...   Jul 21 2007, 03:10 AM
Mini   Uh... depends? Usually, when I feel like it, I...   Jul 21 2007, 05:59 AM
JakeKKing   I'd let the guy, but if you want to, go for it...   Jul 21 2007, 10:46 AM
MyMichelle   It depends on who is the dominant person in the re...   Jul 21 2007, 11:45 AM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   It doesent matter. Usually the guy does though. I ...   Jul 21 2007, 01:16 PM
ojairus   yes its better if the girl goes for it first, guys...   Jul 21 2007, 05:03 PM
ojairus   well atleast help the guy out and give him signs f...   Jul 21 2007, 05:19 PM
courtn3y   I don't think it matters at all.   Jul 21 2007, 05:56 PM
Angelina Taylor   I've never been the first to ask out a guy, ha...   Jul 23 2007, 10:07 AM
LovelyObsession   I think it depends on personality. Like who has to...   Jul 23 2007, 11:17 AM


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