what will momma say?? Options

[xchrystizzle]

I pierced my belly button a few days ago and my parents don't know about it. I made sure the piercer sanitized everything and she seemed to know what she was doing, and I take care of the piercing. But anyways, my mom is pretty strict, she treats me like a 13 year old sometimes (i'm 16). She didn't even want me to pierce my ears a second time, and she finally let in 2 christmases ago, yet never took me to get them pierced. At first, I didn't care if she got mad about my belly button, she's too strict and didn't like my boyfriend (we had major probs because of that) and yea. We had talked about piercings and she said that she would be mad, but mostly hurt if I came home one day with my belly button pierced. I'm now in Taiwan and I won't see her for another month. I don't want to hurt her feelings TOO much since she's starting to be nicer to me, so should I write her an email or something telling her about it? Or pretend to ask and give good reasons until she says yes? asdf?!

[silver-rain]

My mom is like that too. She refused to let me get my ears pierced for the second time, so the minute I moved out for college, I got it done. And she had to accept that because I wasn't living under their roof. And, I also recently got my belly pierced a couple of months ago. My mom still doesn't know, and my tactic is to just not tell her and hide it from her, so she doesn't find out.
But, if you really want to tell her, call her and let her know that you really wanted it, and already got it done. And, tell her that she should accept what you've done, since it is your body.