what will momma say?? Options

[xchrystizzle]

I pierced my belly button a few days ago and my parents don't know about it. I made sure the piercer sanitized everything and she seemed to know what she was doing, and I take care of the piercing. But anyways, my mom is pretty strict, she treats me like a 13 year old sometimes (i'm 16). She didn't even want me to pierce my ears a second time, and she finally let in 2 christmases ago, yet never took me to get them pierced. At first, I didn't care if she got mad about my belly button, she's too strict and didn't like my boyfriend (we had major probs because of that) and yea. We had talked about piercings and she said that she would be mad, but mostly hurt if I came home one day with my belly button pierced. I'm now in Taiwan and I won't see her for another month. I don't want to hurt her feelings TOO much since she's starting to be nicer to me, so should I write her an email or something telling her about it? Or pretend to ask and give good reasons until she says yes? asdf?!

[*chaneun*]

it's your body, not hers.
it'll suck for you if you leave it in and get pregnant; the hole will expand.
it's almost impossible to have a talk with asian parents and get your point across to them, but they just have to learn to accept that it's your body and your own life and not theirs, which will probably never happen, but hey you're turning 18 in only 2 years, right?

close minded asian parents suck.