...A Little Confused..lol Options

[JonathanK]

K so well there is this girl i like (common situation for me )
And well over the past few months seems we've been getting closer ex. we talk more often, she jogs with me now and then, she asks me to visit her at work. So you know everything is gonig great, I was thinking about asking her out cause i don't know if she really does like me or is just teasing me *shrugs*. So i hear a couple of days ago that she met some guy out of the blue and she kinda likes him.

I don't know im just confused a bit and stuff now. Like i've been really ncie to her and stuff, and there when she had some problems. And iunno kinda just goes out and likes some random guy she met for 15 minutes. Her friend told me she doesn't know what she wants, either to have fun, be in a relationship, or be single. I don't know just kidna cofusing if she does not know what she wants but might start dating another guy. *i guess the random thoughts and choices of a teenage girl*

So i guess my question is what should i do? Like i don't know if this thing with that other guy is gonna last. Last relationship she was in lasted about 3 days. So should i just be a really good friend right now, wait it out see how things last and be there for her when she needs me, or should i just say *screw it* and move on. I have liked this girl for a while now. Thanks for the response. Appreciate It

[*Sandraaa*]

If she knows you like her and hasn't acted upon the hints then she needs time. She probably doesn't want to rush things with you since you're very close friends. If you rush things, you might end up breaking up and not going really far in your relationship because she's confused. Give her some time to figure out what she wants, let her chill and have some 'fun'.

I'm going through this (somewhat) right now, I rushed things and I regret it.