argg, am i supposed to trust him... |
 Jul 17 2007, 10:54 PM
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 wooo.....  Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,765  |
so last night, i was talking to one of my pretty good friends and he admitted to me that he's liked me since 6th grade [i'm a freshman now]. apparently, he never admitted/showed it to me because we're more...best friend like, but now we're going to different schools so he wants to tell me. i used to like him and i would still go out with him. perfect situation, right? wrong. he's one of the school's biggest players and i don't know if i should believe him when he says that he wants to go out because 1. he still has a girlfriend [he doesn't like her, and hes gonna break up with her] 2. the beginning of our conversation started as him saying, "let's hook up."
he's a really great guy, and he wouldn't lie to me...but i just don't know if i trust him on this. should i? |
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Jul 17 2007, 11:28 PM
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wooo..... Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,765 |
well its not that he just completely wanted me to hook up with him, he first explained to me how bad of a boyfriend he was [this was before he told me hes liked me] and i was just like i'm sure your not...and he was like well you've never gone out with me. and i'm like yeah, because you were never interested in me. and he was like well, i think we should hook up...just to try it. and i was like uh, haha you know i wouldn't do that. so then he was like yeah, i know, but you would never be interested in me enough to go out with me. and i was like how do you know? its not like you've ever asked me out...so he's like yeah, but i've always wanted to.
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Jul 18 2007, 12:30 AM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
QUOTE(allboutme2987 @ Jul 17 2007, 09:28 PM)  well its not that he just completely wanted me to hook up with him, he first explained to me how bad of a boyfriend he was [this was before he told me hes liked me] and i was just like i'm sure your not...and he was like well you've never gone out with me. and i'm like yeah, because you were never interested in me. and he was like well, i think we should hook up...just to try it. and i was like uh, haha you know i wouldn't do that. so then he was like yeah, i know, but you would never be interested in me enough to go out with me. and i was like how do you know? its not like you've ever asked me out...so he's like yeah, but i've always wanted to. Well, now that you've said more.. Most of the time, when good friends start to like each other or start to date, things go awry and the friendship is lost. I've had that happen to me way too many times. I've learned my lesson. It hurts. How important is the friendship to you? Are you willing to take that risk? What happens if you two [i]do[i] decide to date and then break up? Will the both of you be able to move on and stay friends? Consider the risks first. |
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Jul 18 2007, 01:04 AM
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wooo..... Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,765 |
QUOTE(towntown2 @ Jul 17 2007, 11:30 PM) Well, now that you've said more.. Most of the time, when good friends start to like each other or start to date, things go awry and the friendship is lost. I've had that happen to me way too many times. I've learned my lesson. It hurts. How important is the friendship to you? Are you willing to take that risk? What happens if you two [i]do[i] decide to date and then break up? Will the both of you be able to move on and stay friends? Consider the risks first. i think our friendship is going to drift apart anyways, because next year i won't see him at all unless we make it a point to hang out. |
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allboutme2987 argg Jul 17 2007, 10:54 PM
MyMichelle I think that you should just stay friends... consi... Jul 17 2007, 11:02 PM towntown2 "Let's hook up" is no way to start a... Jul 17 2007, 11:13 PM
yobaka3 QUOTE(towntown2 @ Jul 18 2007, 12:13 AM) ... Jul 17 2007, 11:43 PM ambernoelnichols he doesn't sound trustworthy to me.
so if you ... Jul 18 2007, 01:06 AM allboutme2987 true, but since our friendship is on the verge of ... Jul 18 2007, 01:40 AM towntown2 QUOTE(allboutme2987 @ Jul 17 2007, 11:40 ... Jul 18 2007, 10:57 PM Beunique um if he's told u all his faults then why woul... Jul 18 2007, 11:08 AM inlovexxwithyou QUOTE(Beunique @ Jul 18 2007, 12:08 PM) u... Jul 18 2007, 03:19 PM S-Majere Wait a moment and think this through.
His idea of... Jul 18 2007, 03:42 PM Castaway you risk getting your heart broken in any relation... Jul 18 2007, 11:26 PM tr1pp1n DONT trust him. shit i dont even trust myself Jul 18 2007, 11:35 PM Moderator I don't think its a good idea. Alright; so let... Jul 18 2007, 11:49 PM allboutme2987 well, by player, i mean he can get any girl he wan... Jul 19 2007, 11:38 AM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(allboutme2987 @ Jul 17 2007, 11:54 ... Jul 19 2007, 12:16 PM candy_coated_kisses QUOTEwell, by player, i mean he can get any girl h... Jul 22 2007, 09:41 PM courtn3y If he's a player, then dont. Jul 22 2007, 09:57 PM 1angel3 Give him a chance BUT be cautious. Take it slow. Jul 22 2007, 10:07 PM |
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