I have this problem.., Falling inlove.. Options

[misch143]

I have this very close friend, she is 24 yrs old, and I am only 18. Whithin a month, our bond is inseparable. This is because she had a financial problem lately, and i was the one who was able to helped her. One time, I invited her to watch a movie. And then I realize, she is really sweet with me. I think, i am falling for her, however, my heart broke when i learned that she has a boyfriend, a 3 year relationship and she is engaged. One time, she texted me that her relationship is rather shaky and what if she falls out. i am really confused if she feels a brotherly love or a different one? Should i fight for my feelings?

I will gladly accept comments and advices.. if parts are not clear, questions can be asked from the thread.. (.!_!.)

[bamababy89]

You might need to look at the situation from her point of view.
She's in a shaky relationship. Her boyfriend is obviously upsetting
her in some way. I agree with the idea that she is dependent on you.

You may have some qualities that her boyfriend doesn't. Maybe she's
finding casual time with you because he isn't. Maybe the fact that
you're so much younger than her makes her feel dominant in this
friendship thats mimicking a relationship, and she's feeling small in
her actual relationship. You cant be that person for her.

It will only hurt you both, and land her in a situation
with her boyfriend. You need to confront her about it. Ask her
why she hangs out with you even though she's with him. Ask a girl
questions, and if she confides in you, you'll most certainly get
answers.