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[*Mercy*]

We need to really toughen up our bashing policy.I mean yea, I know we are personified as Nazis, but it's not fair to have members get pushed away because of people like that.

Some people seem to forget that this site does not operate on their terms. Multiple people start shit just to start shit because they think it livens up the place.IT DOESN'T. IT PUSHES PEOPLE AWAY INTO THINKING WE ARE A BUNCH OF ASSHOLES.

When there are truly GOOD people on here, there's again the concern about how we are Nazis, but this accusation has come from a bunch of bitter "has-beens". What I'm thinking is that the simple verbal warning and warning doesn't work. Because you bust them in one topic and tell them "If you bash them lalalallal its a verbal warning" and they stop for 2 hours and then when they hear something they don't like or find foolish they go at it again like 2 teenage lovers. It's bullshit.

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Some of us, including myself have been guilty of in the past, come in to these kind of topics to "mock" or insult someone because they are young and are sexually exploring. I, personally, as much as I find some of the questions silly, have come to realize that they don't deserve this kind of treatment as they have come to a forum to ask for advice and help from people similar in age asking for things they might not be comfortable asking a friend IRL or searching online because they are afraid their parents might check up on them or something. The least we as a community can do is make them feel welcome and try to help them as best as we can. Even if she's 14 and didn't know the reason as to why she let her BF finger her, that's none of our business to belittle her on. It's her body; let her learn the good parts of that and the bad. That's whats it's all about.

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Some of this wasn't so bad.. but a good majority of this was bickering and arguing and downgrading. As you can see the original poster was having some serious issues. Why should this person have to put up with name calling and stuff like that?

And then not to mention there the people who do the "Quote-reply with "LOL UR SO FUNNY". Shit like that adds gas to the fire. At some schools when a fight goes on, the people who fight get in trouble along with the people who watch/instigate the fight. That should be something to consider too. Maybe not a warning but reprimanding or giving a verbal warning might suffice.

I know this has been addressed so many times but...this is starting to becomes cB's reputation of spammers, assholes, n00bs and "Nazis".

This kind of behavior is something we shouldn't have to tolerate or put up with..

[xKatt]

... but sometimes the bashing is warranted. I mean, come on. What are you supposed to say when a 14 year old thinks she's pregnant because a guy fingered her?

Like you said, cB has lots of kids on it. You can't possibly expect us to be mature enough to pass up a perfect opportunity to make fun of someone!!

[*Mercy*]

... but sometimes the bashing is warranted. I mean, come on. What are you supposed to say when a 14 year old thinks she's pregnant because a guy fingered her?

Like you said, cB has lots of kids on it. You can't possibly expect us to be mature enough to pass up a perfect opportunity to make fun of someone!!

This is the worlds SILLIEST statement i have ever seen.

If you really think that you are incapable(and i dont mean this directly to you) to have self control,little one then what is your purpose for being on a forum in the first place if you just are going to be imature and laugh at everyone who deem "stupid".

Respect is a right that everyone deserves N00b or not.Member bashing to the extreme of degrading is never ever warranted.

The mods should f**king loosen up sometimes... especially in the Lounge / chat-ish areas. I have nothing against a single mod at all... but I don't see why Diana should have been punished considering they were basically posts with some sort of topic. Mods should be there to be regular members with powers to close and move threads, not to be our school counselors / principals and control everything we do. And honestly, I think it'd be more fun if the mods didn't have to be so uptight on cB all the time. In CBC where the mods can freely talk and be themselves, it's chaos - sure - but it's still a much more peaceful and less dramatic environment.

My punishment was fair and I was damn lucky i didnt get thrown off for good.And I really kinda wish that we would all move on from it.Though i do appreciate everyone whos comming to my defense.Its just that im ready to move on and when the time comes and the punishment is over i will be reinstated.I look at this as a tiny vacation with a lesson to it.