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[*Mercy*]

We need to really toughen up our bashing policy.I mean yea, I know we are personified as Nazis, but it's not fair to have members get pushed away because of people like that.

Some people seem to forget that this site does not operate on their terms. Multiple people start shit just to start shit because they think it livens up the place.IT DOESN'T. IT PUSHES PEOPLE AWAY INTO THINKING WE ARE A BUNCH OF ASSHOLES.

When there are truly GOOD people on here, there's again the concern about how we are Nazis, but this accusation has come from a bunch of bitter "has-beens". What I'm thinking is that the simple verbal warning and warning doesn't work. Because you bust them in one topic and tell them "If you bash them lalalallal its a verbal warning" and they stop for 2 hours and then when they hear something they don't like or find foolish they go at it again like 2 teenage lovers. It's bullshit.

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Some of us, including myself have been guilty of in the past, come in to these kind of topics to "mock" or insult someone because they are young and are sexually exploring. I, personally, as much as I find some of the questions silly, have come to realize that they don't deserve this kind of treatment as they have come to a forum to ask for advice and help from people similar in age asking for things they might not be comfortable asking a friend IRL or searching online because they are afraid their parents might check up on them or something. The least we as a community can do is make them feel welcome and try to help them as best as we can. Even if she's 14 and didn't know the reason as to why she let her BF finger her, that's none of our business to belittle her on. It's her body; let her learn the good parts of that and the bad. That's whats it's all about.

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Some of this wasn't so bad.. but a good majority of this was bickering and arguing and downgrading. As you can see the original poster was having some serious issues. Why should this person have to put up with name calling and stuff like that?

And then not to mention there the people who do the "Quote-reply with "LOL UR SO FUNNY". Shit like that adds gas to the fire. At some schools when a fight goes on, the people who fight get in trouble along with the people who watch/instigate the fight. That should be something to consider too. Maybe not a warning but reprimanding or giving a verbal warning might suffice.

I know this has been addressed so many times but...this is starting to becomes cB's reputation of spammers, assholes, n00bs and "Nazis".

This kind of behavior is something we shouldn't have to tolerate or put up with..

[xKatt]

... but sometimes the bashing is warranted. I mean, come on. What are you supposed to say when a 14 year old thinks she's pregnant because a guy fingered her?

Like you said, cB has lots of kids on it. You can't possibly expect us to be mature enough to pass up a perfect opportunity to make fun of someone!!

[freeflow]

^ Agreed.

I believe majority of the people on this site are mature enough to pass it up. You don't need a two-three page topic full of members bashing on one person because she didn't know any better. Just because you happen to know that its a dumb question, doesn't mean they see the same. Come on now you can't tell me when you were younger you didn't ask at least one dumb question in your life. It might not be like the ones we're using as an example, but still. Be mature. Pass it up if you see WAY to many people doing it. There is no way anyone is asking you to stop bashing for good... completely.. forever.(as already mentioned)because it won't happen and no one wants this place to turn into a incredibly goody goody place but bring it down a bit. Bashing may be fun for you, but some people may be serious when they post questions like that. Maybe some members won't be mature and will bash. But some people can actually just answer the question and get on with that. If you want to say something about it later , on your own time outside. GO AHEAD. But at least try to take a more mature approach.

By the way.. when a 14yr old girl asks you that question.. the short and sweet reply would be to answer the question. Coming up with a whole sarcastic type reply so that you can sound (to some) superior and (to others) kind of stupid is a waste of time. (In my opinion) Maybe not to you but its not called for in every situation which is kind of the point here. Do it at a minimum is all that some people would actually like to see around here.