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[*Mercy*]

We need to really toughen up our bashing policy.I mean yea, I know we are personified as Nazis, but it's not fair to have members get pushed away because of people like that.

Some people seem to forget that this site does not operate on their terms. Multiple people start shit just to start shit because they think it livens up the place.IT DOESN'T. IT PUSHES PEOPLE AWAY INTO THINKING WE ARE A BUNCH OF ASSHOLES.

When there are truly GOOD people on here, there's again the concern about how we are Nazis, but this accusation has come from a bunch of bitter "has-beens". What I'm thinking is that the simple verbal warning and warning doesn't work. Because you bust them in one topic and tell them "If you bash them lalalallal its a verbal warning" and they stop for 2 hours and then when they hear something they don't like or find foolish they go at it again like 2 teenage lovers. It's bullshit.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...view=getnewpost
Some of us, including myself have been guilty of in the past, come in to these kind of topics to "mock" or insult someone because they are young and are sexually exploring. I, personally, as much as I find some of the questions silly, have come to realize that they don't deserve this kind of treatment as they have come to a forum to ask for advice and help from people similar in age asking for things they might not be comfortable asking a friend IRL or searching online because they are afraid their parents might check up on them or something. The least we as a community can do is make them feel welcome and try to help them as best as we can. Even if she's 14 and didn't know the reason as to why she let her BF finger her, that's none of our business to belittle her on. It's her body; let her learn the good parts of that and the bad. That's whats it's all about.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=179744
Some of this wasn't so bad.. but a good majority of this was bickering and arguing and downgrading. As you can see the original poster was having some serious issues. Why should this person have to put up with name calling and stuff like that?

And then not to mention there the people who do the "Quote-reply with "LOL UR SO FUNNY". Shit like that adds gas to the fire. At some schools when a fight goes on, the people who fight get in trouble along with the people who watch/instigate the fight. That should be something to consider too. Maybe not a warning but reprimanding or giving a verbal warning might suffice.

I know this has been addressed so many times but...this is starting to becomes cB's reputation of spammers, assholes, n00bs and "Nazis".

This kind of behavior is something we shouldn't have to tolerate or put up with..

[Spirited Away]

When someone is "mature" enough to let a guy finger her, she should be able to withstand some name calling. If she's not mature, but she allowed a guy to touch her in that way, then she deserves to have some sense knocked into her. Obviously, no one else did.

It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it.

A community isn't about being someone's mother, it's about good people, bad people, and the in-betweens. That's how people learn things. Yes, do control the bad, but to expel them is making this community... fake. A make believe happy place, where everyone accepts what you do as right and no one will think you're stupid for doing stupid things.

If the goal here IS to play "mother", and if I was the girl's mother, I'd appreciate someone telling my daughter how stupid she is. I'm not calling her stupid for being curious about sex. I'm calling her stupid because she's clueless about the consequences of sexual escapades and blindly participated anyway.

[brooklyneast05]

It's a dirty job, but someone has to do it.

i dont see why anyone has to bash other members
nothing comes from telling a stupid immature child that they are stupid and immature. some person over the internet talking shit to a little 14 year old girl doesn't make her better. and next time she's in the situation she isn't gonna think "oh wait, someone on createblog told me id be an idiot if i did this, i better stop"

some of the posts on here are EXTREMELY stupid, pointless, and repeated, and yeah i find them annoying, so therefore i hit the back button and go to another one.

shrugs