I have this problem.., Falling inlove.. Options

[misch143]

I have this very close friend, she is 24 yrs old, and I am only 18. Whithin a month, our bond is inseparable. This is because she had a financial problem lately, and i was the one who was able to helped her. One time, I invited her to watch a movie. And then I realize, she is really sweet with me. I think, i am falling for her, however, my heart broke when i learned that she has a boyfriend, a 3 year relationship and she is engaged. One time, she texted me that her relationship is rather shaky and what if she falls out. i am really confused if she feels a brotherly love or a different one? Should i fight for my feelings?

I will gladly accept comments and advices.. if parts are not clear, questions can be asked from the thread.. (.!_!.)

[sprezzatura]

Well, it's a "what-if" situation. Does that mean she still hasn't fallen out of that relationship with her boyfriend who she is engaged with? Have you ever confessed your feelings to her? If you have never done so, confess to her a while after (not RIGHT after) she breaks up with her boyfriend. But....if her relationship soon becomes more stable, then I guess you should move on and find another girl who is as sweet as her. She might feel a brotherly love for you, since she seems quite dependent on you.