my lost "love" |
my lost "love" |
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Ok this may seem a bit weird...
but a few months ago..me and this guy flirted and talked on the phone 4 hours every night and we used to chat online 4 over 5 hours a day...he even told me he loved me and asked me to be his gf..but like an idiot..i thought it was to early cuz we knew each other but never really talked face 2 face..so we planned 2 c each other n we did..everythin went great except we were both a bit shy!! then we planned 2 c each other again...n we were both quiet n shy...we didnt really talk..jus small talk..hey hru...and thtz it..he said he has 2 go...and then we text messaged each other on hw weird tht was...and nw everytime we're both online on msn..we dont talk... nw the crazy part..I LOVE HIM!! I WANNA SPEND MY LIFE WITH HIM! HES ALL I THINK ABOUT!! But he doesnt want me...and i have no idea hw 2 get over him! help!! plzzz im desperate..i listen 2 depressing luv songz n cry myself 2 sleep..hw can i luv sum1 so much tht i've never even went out with! ![]() |
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So you met up with a guy you met online and fell in love? Wow.
Seems to me that you're both far too shy for your own good. Safely arrange to meet up with your boy again, then YOU ask HIM out. It's always tricky when you're first starting to date (or even meet) new people - and you'll find that eventually the small-talk will dissolve and you'll get some really great conversations going! Why don't you ask him along to something he enjoys doing? If he's a film fan, go to the cinema (have a meal or a drink afterwards so you can talk through the movie together) or if he's more of a stay-at-home fellow, invite him down to a quiet coffee-shop or something. The more time you spend with someone, the easier it gets to talk to them. |
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