Playing hard to get |
 Jul 11 2007, 03:39 PM
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I was just wondering since everyone always says that if you play hard to get the guy wants you even more. Is this true? Why/why not? Feedback please.
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Jul 12 2007, 12:54 PM
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I did this with my boyfriend. Not so much 'hard to get', but 'I'm not ready for the 'R' word'. Turned out to be the same difference really - playing hard to get is a good way in which to gage just how much someone likes you, and how far they are prepared to go.
I played hard to get with my first boyfriend for over a year; mainly because I had never been in a relationship before and I wasn't sure whether I wanted to be. It didn't put him off at all, and it showed me just how deeply and how selflessly he cared for me, and still does. As long as you're not too coy about it, and you don't use your suitors for your own ends, it's a simple way to attract those that will be right for you. Think about what they did in the good ole 'olden days'. |
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Jul 12 2007, 01:11 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Jul 12 2007, 01:54 PM)  I did this with my boyfriend. Not so much 'hard to get', but 'I'm not ready for the 'R' word'. Turned out to be the same difference really - playing hard to get is a good way in which to gage just how much someone likes you, and how far they are prepared to go. I played hard to get with my first boyfriend for over a year; mainly because I had never been in a relationship before and I wasn't sure whether I wanted to be. It didn't put him off at all, and it showed me just how deeply and how selflessly he cared for me, and still does. As long as you're not too coy about it, and you don't use your suitors for your own ends, it's a simple way to attract those that will be right for you. Think about what they did in the good ole 'olden days'. Well, I think not knowing that you're ready for the relationship or finding out if the other person is even attracted to you is slightly different from playing hard to get. Playing hard to get to me is when you know the other person is attracted to you and that you are attracted to the other person as well but instead of saying so, you pretend to be not interested and, thus, prolong the inevitable. Wow, I don't even know what I typed even makes sense, but I tried. 
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XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX Playing hard to get Jul 11 2007, 03:39 PM
Mini Well, it's true in the beginning. But if you k... Jul 11 2007, 03:52 PM yobaka3 ^ True.
QUOTE(XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX ... Jul 11 2007, 04:05 PM Sandraaa Playing hard to get? Maann, I've got serious s... Jul 11 2007, 04:15 PM yobaka3 ^ Lazy :0
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Mini QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 11 2007, 06:49 PM) ^ ... Jul 12 2007, 09:27 AM yobaka3 QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 12 2007, 10:27 AM) Meh, ... Jul 12 2007, 03:59 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 12 2007, 10:27 AM) Meh, ... Jul 13 2007, 09:28 AM Spirited Away QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 12 2007, 09:27 AM) Meh, ... Jul 17 2007, 07:28 PM PINAYSTER haha my boyfriend said that playing hard to get is... Jul 11 2007, 06:09 PM S-Majere Yeah, that makes sense. I think perhaps 'playi... Jul 12 2007, 01:16 PM Amechi i think it's annoying as hell. and bill kauli... Jul 13 2007, 08:13 PM xKatt When did Bill Kaulitz come into the picture? ^ Jul 13 2007, 08:33 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX Lmao Bill Kaulitz is freaking SEXY and no, hes not... Jul 15 2007, 05:42 PM SinfullySweet RE: Playing hard to get Jul 13 2007, 09:16 PM xKatt ^ Oooh I didn't know who that was.
He is pret... Jul 16 2007, 01:34 AM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(xKatt @ Jul 16 2007, 02:34 AM) ^ Oo... Jul 16 2007, 12:25 PM Mercy Playing hard to get should be done to the very min... Jul 16 2007, 11:59 AM yobaka3 The singer? I absolutely do not see a guy when I s... Jul 16 2007, 02:37 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 16 2007, 03:37 PM) Th... Jul 16 2007, 02:40 PM Brilliance ^he/she wears more make-up than my last girlfriend... Jul 16 2007, 09:05 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(Brilliance @ Jul 16 2007, 10:05 PM)... Sep 12 2007, 02:36 PM ambernoelnichols playing hard to get is a huge game because people ... Jul 17 2007, 11:55 AM skillxz Not at all. I find it that if they show no interes... Jul 17 2007, 06:13 PM xKatt Yeah, when it's more manipulative, it's ju... Jul 17 2007, 11:17 PM popoberry i think when girls play hard to get it makes the g... Jul 20 2007, 06:15 PM jue Eh, I think people play hard to get just for the a... Sep 12 2007, 06:32 PM omgomgKATHY playing hard to get is pretty lame. Sep 12 2007, 06:46 PM Chad_man Playing hard to get fu**ing pisses me off. I dumpe... Sep 12 2007, 06:56 PM xirisx but if your to easy they eventualy loos intrest an... Sep 13 2007, 10:48 AM Uronacid I punch her in the leg so she can't run and th... Sep 13 2007, 12:19 PM xirisx ^^..hahahahahaha Sep 16 2007, 06:26 PM doiink playing hard to get also works because guys like t... Sep 27 2007, 09:49 PM tungmyBANANA ^ I agree. The girls who are too easy to get, are ... Sep 29 2007, 02:45 AM ojairus well if you play hard to get then the guys thinks ... Sep 29 2007, 03:11 AM Moderator I actually like a chase. But if they don't sh... Sep 29 2007, 11:03 AM PINKLollyPOP i think playing hard to get can be a good thing...... Sep 29 2007, 01:29 PM nguoicasison nicckaaa plzz... Nov 3 2007, 10:13 AM |
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