i cant wait till school starts, cuz maybe then i'll see him... Options

[fathomlessdame]

okay. i havnt seen my bf is almost five weeks not since the last day of school when i had a ton of fun with him for acouple hours afterwards we didnt go all the way..but we went pretty close..

thing is, i've only talked to him online these past weeks...he doesnt seem to kno how to call me (when he promised he would) and this week hes at his moms so we have (had)the chance to hang out...but the only day i can get a ride from my mom (neither of us can drive yet) is tomorrow...and before i was able to tell him he went and made plans with his friend clayton tomorrow. he doesnt seem like hes willing to change them either..but then we didnt talk long cuz i got off to go to my room and settle myself down so i didnt say anything stupid but as soon as i got back he got off (could have just been cuz he had to eat dinner or something....)...hasnt been online since. so i havnt had achance to talk to him

but these 5 weeks i havnt seen him during, have been hell. i've missed him so freaking much! and i've let him know that...and now with this..i keep on thinkin that he doesnt give a shit about me, that he doesnt love me... but then all of his friends tell me, that he DOES love me and that he DOES care about me....



but yeah...plz dont reply with a 'hes not worth it, break up with him' cuz that really doesnt help matters cuz i will not break up with him, i love him too much

[Rachel]

Hey, I am in a long distance relationship right now, I am in Arizona and he is in Cape Cod, and I haven't seen him in almost a month so at least you two are in the same state. That being said, ya'll are in the same state! That is pretty pathetic if he can't cancel on his friend to see you on the one day you can get a ride. You need to talk to him, NOT ONLINE, pref. in person but that seems to be an issue so the phone will suffice. Let him know that you aren't happy with your situation, and that you'd appreciate at least a phone call during the week. I know it's hard, especially when neither of you can drive (Hell my ex and I dated for 5 months when neither of us could but we still managed to see each other a lot). It just takes patience and compromise on both ends.