Losing the will to live Options

[IfICouldEscape]

Basically got no friends, no girlfriend, the one I want I can't have, I can't get over, someone spread a rumour about me, not true, feel like shit, I bottle it in my room every day, noone I feel like I want to turn to despite my parents being fine and that, don't socialise, depressed.

How do people make friends lol? All the people at my school I just don't like, or they don't like me, I have developed social anxiety, basically I fear talking to people now, never know what to say, feel as if I'm being judged, I can't break the ice, it takes me agessssssssss to get to know someone properly to the point where when I walk by them I can stop and talk and not just walk by either ignoring them or just nodding my head. I haven't been able to get to that point apart from 1 person who I hold to my heart as a real close friend. I never know how to take a friendship further after the first meeting or two, with me it just seems like they become nodding pals after a while and I'm just thinking what am I doing wrong excluding the rumour but in different environments. I start to think I'm just such a boring person when they meet me. I find that there's nothing for me to see someone for after the first meeting point or 2/3 etc. I feel like a stranger to them and don't seem to build and connections. Sometimes I just talk to them for the sake of not looking like a loner but really I'm just bored of them and vice versa most likely. I'm starting to feel anxiety when I talk to people I hardly ever do or when meeting people for the first time. That way I find it more comfortable to just avoid talking to people all together, I even avoid talking to anyone really, at least I feel calmer. I seriously don't know what to say to break the ice, it really affects me. Any suggestions, thanks in advance.

[AimeeLynn]

Gah. Eh. this is funny. When I was neww here in cB I posted kinda the same thing.

Well my adivce to you is to stop pondering the negatives in your life. Think about all the good things. It helped me.
Get a hobby such as a sport or drawing.<-- Make sure the drawing is not exactly "scary" images. Because it will just make you depressed more. If you know what I mean.
Cutting is not the answer. It doesn't even help and it just hurts phyisically and not only mentally.
I'm religious so I believe pray helps or just as the said meditate in a calm envoriment like a park.

Be friendly. Such as like go over to someone that seems alone too. Talk small talk and see if you guys agree with each other and have a connection.

Pm since you know this happens to me and I know what you are going though. It seems like the end but you know it's the beginning of the end.

Alot of people feel the same way you feel. It just seems your the only one.
Don't make it seem your the only one.