Questions, questions, answers?, how do you "fall out of love" so quickly? |
 Jul 6 2007, 11:38 AM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB!  Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217  |
So for 6 amazing months with my boyfriend, nothing went wrong..we never got into any arguments, nothing like that. He was like my best friend, we laughed, talked, joked around etc.
Then May rolled around, and usually we would hang out alone once a week, so as usual i asked him to come over...as the weeks went by he kept making excuses as to why he couldnt come. Well, the day before our 6 month anniversary, i invite him over, he says yes...and i get all excited and such, because i hadnt been alone with him for a month. Turns out, he was coming over to break up with me Now of course im in total shock, and i can hardly speak, but i manage to ask him "why?" He said he just hasnt felt right lately, and of course he gives me the "its not you its me" line... My question? How do you go from being so "inlove" as he told me many times....to just gradually losing that feeling? Now the thing is, im stuck with all these questions i want to ask him, but i have no way of contacting him since its summer. The fact that i actually fell inlove with him, and he's just been taken away from me kills... && another thing, if i ever do get to speak to him online or something, how do i even begin to have a conversation with him about our breakup? we will eventually have to have it, seeing as he still wants to be "really good friends" |
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Jul 6 2007, 01:19 PM
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 -Officially Insane- Group: Member Posts: 870 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,293 |
It happens. I know from experience. My ex and I went out for 6 months. We were totally and completely in love with each other. I seriously thought I wanted to be with this guy forever, we were even engaged. Then...idk why...but the relationship just didn't feel right to me anymore. I couldn't shake that feeling...and I ended up breaking up with him. I still love him, in a way, so it killed me to have to do it...but I just was not at all happy in our relationship anymore...I wish I knew why, but I don't. So...I've been in your boyfriend's position. Sometimes...hard as it is...these things just happen.
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IamRad Questions, questions, answers? Jul 6 2007, 11:38 AM
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MyMichelle QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 6 2007, 01:29 PM)... Jul 8 2007, 02:50 PM JustAnotherTeenageLoser QUOTEI don't want to sound like an a-hole. But... Jul 6 2007, 10:16 PM pinacoolada Sorry, but maybe it's because he probably didn... Jul 6 2007, 10:31 PM minioligo Like everyone's said, things just happen. Peop... Jul 6 2007, 10:53 PM revoltaire most likely, he wasn't so in love.
i get how y... Jul 6 2007, 11:15 PM tr1pp1n thats why yo uhave to find a better partner. i thi... Jul 7 2007, 02:58 AM JakeKKing QUOTE(IamRad @ Jul 6 2007, 12:38 PM) So f... Jul 8 2007, 02:46 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 6 2007, 02:29 PM)... Jul 9 2007, 02:30 PM Beunique Well to tell you, honestly the line "ITS NOT ... Jul 9 2007, 02:36 PM |
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