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[cori-catastrophe]

this is really long. thank you if you read all of it.

so i've liked this guy(lee)for two years straight. seriously. at one point we were extremely good friends. anyways, my cousin britni has decided that she likes him too. over the last few days, her and my other friends have gone places with guys. she flirts with all of them. she even got in the car w/ one of them and went somewhere and left the rest of us there. i don't know what exactaly they did, but they sure were acting very giggly when she got back. the night before last, lee and britni went to a fireworks thing. i don't know what happened, but apparently they started going out. last night, lee's friend, lee, britni, and i all went to this party. the entire time, they were holding hands, but britni was flirting with these two other guys with him right beside her. lee brought his friend, and completey left him and britni completely left me. she rubbed it in my face the whole time that she was there with and him and i wasn't, while checking out other guys the whole time. and she told me that she was checking them out. everytime she would kiss him, she would look over at me and smirk. i'm not going to lie. i've always been jelous of her. she gets all the guys. i told her when i first started liking him, and she's known that i liked him since. i used to talk about him all the time, and about a week before they started going out, she asked me if i still liked him and i said yeah. so she knew it the whole time. i told him that i liked him and he didn't say if he liked me or not. she had told her mom that she likes two other guys and her mom told me that she was cheating on lee. also, her (supposed to be) best friend, anna, goes out with this guy named aj. i was reading his picture comments on myspace yesterday, and there was a comment from britni that said "SEXI.....i love it...sshh dont tell ana..". i know that just because he may not like me doesn't mean he's off limits for her or anyone else, but it still pisses me off. so....yeah. what should i do. i'm over lee, but i'm not sure if i should tell them both that i'm pissed or not. i don't want to start any drama but i don't want to let them get away with doing this to me without hearing what i have to say about it. help. am i overreacting.

[cori-catastrophe]

yeahhh. there's no way that i'd consider him anymore after all of this. it just makes me mad.
^uhm. what. again, i'm not planning on turing into a whore.

[aligator13]

yeahhh. there's no way that i'd consider him anymore after all of this. it just makes me mad.
^uhm. what. again, i'm not planning on turing into a whore.

i agree that you should forget about them. clearly your cousin doesn't understand that family comes first. at 13 you're just starting to experience your life. i didn't have my first boyfriend or first kiss until i was almost 14 (and it wasn't something that you'd want to remember as your first kiss) and 90% of the people i know haven't had bf's or been kissed. be who you are, you'll go farther in life. slutty obnoxious rude boyfriend stealing girls don't get far, they usually get to the street corner and wait for some shiny car with some rich guy with marital problems to whisk them away for a night of.... i think you get where this is going. just wait. you don't need to try and show off or whatever to get this guy lee. you don't need to be britni to get him. britni may have gotten him because of her looks, but he's bound to find out that her personality... to put it bluntly sucks. you'll find the guy that likes you, for you, and not for your looks, money, car, boobs, etc. lee will realize that she's not a great person, and if he doesn't then maybe he's not the person that you thought he was. good luck with everything! you'll find that special guy one day and then you'll realize how wrong those other guys you had "issues" or "problems" (whatever you want to call them) with. :]