Losing the will to live |
 Jul 3 2007, 11:37 AM
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Basically got no friends, no girlfriend, the one I want I can't have, I can't get over, someone spread a rumour about me, not true, feel like shit, I bottle it in my room every day, noone I feel like I want to turn to despite my parents being fine and that, don't socialise, depressed.
How do people make friends lol? All the people at my school I just don't like, or they don't like me, I have developed social anxiety, basically I fear talking to people now, never know what to say, feel as if I'm being judged, I can't break the ice, it takes me agessssssssss to get to know someone properly to the point where when I walk by them I can stop and talk and not just walk by either ignoring them or just nodding my head. I haven't been able to get to that point apart from 1 person who I hold to my heart as a real close friend. I never know how to take a friendship further after the first meeting or two, with me it just seems like they become nodding pals after a while and I'm just thinking what am I doing wrong excluding the rumour but in different environments. I start to think I'm just such a boring person when they meet me. I find that there's nothing for me to see someone for after the first meeting point or 2/3 etc. I feel like a stranger to them and don't seem to build and connections. Sometimes I just talk to them for the sake of not looking like a loner but really I'm just bored of them and vice versa most likely. I'm starting to feel anxiety when I talk to people I hardly ever do or when meeting people for the first time. That way I find it more comfortable to just avoid talking to people all together, I even avoid talking to anyone really, at least I feel calmer. I seriously don't know what to say to break the ice, it really affects me. Any suggestions, thanks in advance. |
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Jul 3 2007, 02:15 PM
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Well althought I hate referring to these labels as it's well known I'll use them. I dislike the whole emo/chav/goth type thing. I like normal people
 I like people that are sporty, if into football the better, good fun and is up for anything really, and someone who takes pride in what they look like. I don't think of it this way when meeting people but now you've asked me most likely people like that I would like. Just a normal active type young lad really who ain't a showoff, player druggy etc. I like my music too, but dislike meeting people when it takes over their whole life aka emo's.
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jul 3 2007, 03:51 PM
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QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 3 2007, 02:15 PM)  Well althought I hate referring to these labels as it's well known I'll use them. I dislike the whole emo/chav/goth type thing. I like normal people I like people that are sporty, if into football the better, good fun and is up for anything really, and someone who takes pride in what they look like. I don't think of it this way when meeting people but now you've asked me most likely people like that I would like. Just a normal active type young lad really who ain't a showoff, player druggy etc. I like my music too, but dislike meeting people when it takes over their whole life aka emo's.Haha, it's quite ironic that you would dislike them considering your thread is, well, um, pretty "emo." (I hate using that term in that way). If you have no friends, I wouldn't be judgemental about who I try to be friends with. "Beggars can't be choosers." haha. Seriously, though, you should get to know people before you label them. Some of them can actually be pretty cool. |
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Jul 3 2007, 05:10 PM
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QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jul 3 2007, 03:51 PM) Haha, it's quite ironic that you would dislike them considering your thread is, well, um, pretty "emo." (I hate using that term in that way). If you have no friends, I wouldn't be judgemental about who I try to be friends with. "Beggars can't be choosers." haha. Seriously, though, you should get to know people before you label them. Some of them can actually be pretty cool. What? I was just stating my relationship problems, from what I wrote everyone who has a relationship problem is an emo then, that's what your saying right?  I'm not usually judgemental but I don't fancy hanging around these ugly creatures ... I could be here all day with why I hate them, I've spoken to loads of them before and they're all the same.
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jul 3 2007, 06:54 PM
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QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 3 2007, 05:10 PM) What? I was just stating my relationship problems, from what I wrote everyone who has a relationship problem is an emo then, that's what your saying right? I'm not usually judgemental but I don't fancy hanging around these ugly creatures ... I could be here all day with why I hate them, I've spoken to loads of them before and they're all the same.Not many title their topics "Losing the Will To Live" 
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IfICouldEscape Losing the will to live Jul 3 2007, 11:37 AM
MyMichelle It is really hard to just go up to someone and sta... Jul 3 2007, 12:15 PM Chessboxxa 101 Honest, I think you should be your own best friend... Jul 3 2007, 12:18 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX ^ I agree with both of them. Like MyMichelle said ... Jul 3 2007, 01:01 PM steve330 Or get a job where you have to interact with other... Jul 3 2007, 01:46 PM steve330 And how old are you? Jul 3 2007, 02:18 PM IfICouldEscape 17 (Feel like 85). Jul 3 2007, 02:22 PM steve330 Intramural football. Football team. Join a schoo... Jul 3 2007, 02:25 PM
Tamacracker QUOTE(steve330 @ Jul 3 2007, 03:25 PM) In... Jul 3 2007, 03:38 PM IfICouldEscape QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 3 2007, 03:38 PM)... Jul 3 2007, 05:07 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 3 2007, 06:07 ... Jul 3 2007, 05:55 PM Fist QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 3 2007, 03:55 PM)... Jul 11 2007, 10:25 PM Chessboxxa 101 QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 3 2007, 06:07 ... Jul 3 2007, 09:12 PM Flair I'm no shrink but I think you should get to kn... Jul 3 2007, 06:14 PM xKatt Send me a message, ok?
I'd really like to tal... Jul 3 2007, 10:07 PM kimmytree I think you're right about the social anxiety ... Jul 5 2007, 08:36 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(kimmytree @ Jul 5 2007, 09:36 PM) I... Jul 5 2007, 09:00 PM kimmytree QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 5 2007, 10:00 PM)... Jul 6 2007, 08:38 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(kimmytree @ Jul 6 2007, 09:38 PM) I... Jul 7 2007, 05:25 PM Pumpx3itup QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 7 2007, 06:25 PM)... Jul 8 2007, 04:59 PM fathomlessdame I used to struggle with depression...still do to a... Jul 5 2007, 09:18 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ Jul 5 2007, 10:18 ... Jul 5 2007, 09:21 PM fathomlessdame QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 5 2007, 09:21 PM)... Jul 5 2007, 09:45 PM Flair QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 6 2007, 04:21 AM)... Jul 6 2007, 05:35 AM Tamacracker QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 6 2007, 06:35 AM) There... Jul 6 2007, 06:12 AM superstitious Wow, I can't believe you guys can't have a... Jul 6 2007, 07:21 AM Tamacracker QUOTE(superstitious @ Jul 6 2007, 08:21 A... Jul 6 2007, 07:39 AM Flair I honestly apologize Tamacracker. My point was - h... Jul 6 2007, 08:44 AM superstitious QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 6 2007, 09:44 AM) I hon... Jul 6 2007, 09:28 AM Tamacracker QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 6 2007, 09:44 AM) I hon... Jul 6 2007, 01:45 PM LORRYtruck I understand what you are going through. I think t... Jul 6 2007, 10:08 AM gr00vyswordsman Meditation is actually a good choice. I sympathize... Jul 6 2007, 12:07 PM shotgunFUNERAL fact is, people are really judgmental; if they don... Jul 6 2007, 12:52 PM tr1pp1n no wonder you have no friends, beggars can't b... Jul 8 2007, 09:34 AM IfICouldEscape QUOTE(tr1pp1n @ Jul 8 2007, 09:34 AM) no ... Jul 8 2007, 01:06 PM tr1pp1n QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 8 2007, 01:06 ... Jul 8 2007, 06:07 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(tr1pp1n @ Jul 8 2007, 10:34 AM) no ... Jul 8 2007, 06:26 PM JakeKKing QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 3 2007, 12:37 ... Jul 8 2007, 02:43 PM IfICouldEscape Mate what you are saying is true partially, but th... Jul 8 2007, 03:56 PM Pumpx3itup Joining a sports team is a very good idea.
It... Jul 8 2007, 04:56 PM tr1pp1n um tama i'm not talking to you man LOL Jul 8 2007, 06:28 PM th5418 OP, this is for you. Major inspiration Jul 8 2007, 07:06 PM kimmytree QUOTE(th5418 @ Jul 8 2007, 08:06 PM) OP, ... Jul 8 2007, 11:43 PM Mercy Please cut the name calling out.
This is a serious... Jul 8 2007, 07:12 PM SinfullySweet Yeah. Its already been said, but most likely, the... Jul 8 2007, 07:24 PM IfICouldEscape Several people have said to change my outlook on l... Jul 9 2007, 06:45 AM steve330 QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 9 2007, 06:45 ... Jul 9 2007, 08:34 AM th5418 QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 9 2007, 06:45 ... Jul 9 2007, 01:06 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(IfICouldEscape @ Jul 9 2007, 07:45 ... Jul 12 2007, 03:08 AM Fist QUOTEGood God, you can't be serious... I'm... Jul 12 2007, 05:25 AM Tamacracker QUOTE(Fist @ Jul 12 2007, 06:25 AM) What ... Jul 12 2007, 03:32 PM shotgunFUNERAL QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 12 2007, 03:32 PM... Jul 12 2007, 03:59 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(shotgunFUNERAL @ Jul 12 2007, 04:59... Jul 12 2007, 04:12 PM Fist QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 12 2007, 01:32 PM... Jul 12 2007, 09:20 PM synkro ^ what do you love to do? find that, and you... Jul 9 2007, 08:26 AM stolen Gah. Eh. this is funny. When I was neww here in cB... Jul 9 2007, 12:33 PM JakeTheSnake heh, i know how you feel "/ Jul 9 2007, 01:46 PM Beunique what i do is that i laugh a lot. i mean dont scare... Jul 11 2007, 03:59 PM Sandraaa ^ Jul 12 2007, 05:38 AM S-Majere That has to be one of THE biggest emo rants I have... Jul 12 2007, 09:47 AM Mini Yeah, I agree.
I tend not to waste my time on the... Jul 12 2007, 10:07 AM S-Majere I'm 19 soon and still don't know what I... Jul 12 2007, 10:11 AM Mini QUOTE(S-Majere @ Jul 12 2007, 11:11 ... Jul 12 2007, 10:18 AM S-Majere /admits the love and breaks down into a wailing ba... Jul 12 2007, 10:25 AM IfICouldEscape Hmm I'm a bit confused lol. It's almost li... Jul 12 2007, 03:05 PM S-Majere Too right.
/disconnects modem. Jul 12 2007, 03:45 PM shotgunFUNERAL no, it's a low blow. don't claim you are a... Jul 12 2007, 04:13 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(shotgunFUNERAL @ Jul 12 2007, 05:13... Jul 12 2007, 04:20 PM steve330 QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 12 2007, 04:20 PM... Jul 12 2007, 05:09 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(steve330 @ Jul 12 2007, 06:09 PM) A... Jul 12 2007, 06:19 PM steve330 QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 12 2007, 06:19 PM... Jul 12 2007, 06:41 PM S-Majere Alright guys, enough is enough.
Everyone's ha... Jul 12 2007, 04:18 PM shotgunFUNERAL well, i guess you don't have to back up anythi... Jul 12 2007, 04:23 PM shotgunFUNERAL there is no misconduct in reporting, but crying ab... Jul 12 2007, 06:28 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(shotgunFUNERAL @ Jul 12 2007, 07:28... Jul 12 2007, 06:37 PM shotgunFUNERAL QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 12 2007, 06:37 PM... Jul 12 2007, 06:38 PM shotgunFUNERAL actually, the p/m conversation lasted with him pre... Jul 12 2007, 07:16 PM lina213 U seem like a nice guy..im sure a lot of people wo... Jul 14 2007, 03:39 AM Sandraaa Steve and co, TAMACRACKER isn't worth it. He... Jul 14 2007, 03:12 PM Tamacracker ROFLMAO
Damn you people are soo emotional, good ... Jul 14 2007, 04:56 PM Fist QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 14 2007, 02:56 PM... Jul 14 2007, 05:43 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(Fist @ Jul 14 2007, 06:43 PM) omfg.... Jul 14 2007, 06:32 PM S-Majere Tamacracker, for Christsake - get some salsa for t... Jul 14 2007, 05:02 PM shotgunFUNERAL ^
i don't believe you started this thread, cor... Jul 14 2007, 05:03 PM S-Majere ^ Correct, but the poor sod that did is probably r... Jul 14 2007, 05:05 PM steve330 ^well he can request it closed if he wants it clos... Jul 14 2007, 05:06 PM S-Majere ^ May as well continue your bickering then. Contin... Jul 14 2007, 05:07 PM shotgunFUNERAL thank you for your approval. Jul 14 2007, 05:08 PM Sandraaa RE: Losing the will to live Jul 14 2007, 05:13 PM Fist You read, wiseass! woot. short posts and big w... Jul 15 2007, 09:13 PM |
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