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 Jul 2 2007, 08:27 PM
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hey what do you have to do to be legally engaged?....cause...i think i might be....? long story short he got down asked if i would marry him i said i do and here i am....wierd...
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Jul 3 2007, 04:43 PM
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I'm technically not allowed to post to his topics anymore, but screw that bullshit.
I, personally, didn't think of sex at ALL when I read that he had "gotten engaged". See, Tama, you don't seem to understand that in India, it's actually going to happen, no matter what the kid says. In their culture, being a virgin is very much sought after, and yes, it helps these children think, "That is my husband, I will save myself for him" but it will also make them sob hopelessly. It's not a game for them. It's life. But that has absolutely NOTHING to do with this case. His parents DIDN'T plan it, his parents AREN'T planning his marriage, and his boyfriend didn't even propose the cultural way that OUR society does things (Ring). So why should we as Americans even believe in it? You love blabbering on about American culture, I would think you understood a bit of it by now. Engagement is cultural, and in American culture, an 18 year old doesn't propose to a 12 year old. Why? Because that is the way it is done, just like in India. This has nothing to do with sex, and everything to do with this kid thinking marriage and engagement is a game, which it absolutely isn't. QUOTE The western thought of this 12 year old being engaged is nasty. But in a worldly view it's just part of a culture Who thought it was nasty? A bunch of 14 year olds? A bunch of 14 year olds on a forum represents all of America? |
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Jul 3 2007, 05:11 PM
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QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 04:43 PM)  I'm technically not allowed to post to his topics anymore, but screw that bullshit. Why is that??? I'm new and learning! |
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doomXL engaged at 12? Jul 2 2007, 08:27 PM
HakunaMatata Okay.
So there's no law prohibiting engagemen... Jul 2 2007, 08:29 PM tininja *points at what Kaycee said*
How do you think you... Jul 2 2007, 08:32 PM designingskills You'll be lucky if you ever see him again afte... Jul 2 2007, 08:40 PM MyMichelle No age. Congrats! Good luck on the marriage... Jul 2 2007, 08:44 PM
Mercy QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jul 3 2007, 01:44 AM) ... Jul 2 2007, 08:52 PM doomXL lol theres a big age difference...which makess it ... Jul 2 2007, 08:47 PM MyMichelle QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 2 2007, 08:47 PM) lol ... Jul 2 2007, 08:53 PM minioligo QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 2 2007, 09:47 PM) lol ... Jul 3 2007, 03:16 PM marzipan QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 2 2007, 08:47 PM) lol ... Jul 3 2007, 03:22 PM Brilliance ....this guy is 18? and hes with you...a 12 year o... Jul 2 2007, 08:51 PM Angelina Taylor ahahahahaha.. Talk to you in a week, when you... Jul 2 2007, 10:52 PM ojairus i thought gay marriage was bannned.... Jul 3 2007, 12:44 AM Rachel QUOTE(ojairus @ Jul 2 2007, 10:44 PM) i t... Jul 3 2007, 02:10 AM Mercy QUOTE(ojairus @ Jul 3 2007, 05:44 AM) i t... Jul 3 2007, 08:21 AM sarmanas REMOVED Jul 3 2007, 01:11 AM nosylilme ^
Wow..umm..well, you need parental consent if ... Jul 3 2007, 01:18 AM yobaka3 :|
As far as I know engagement is a cultural thin... Jul 3 2007, 02:06 AM Moderator Well, like the others said, there is no age to be ... Jul 3 2007, 07:34 AM twilightsamurai Say what? 12 + 18 yr old engaged. lawlz. Okay, so ... Jul 3 2007, 08:38 AM Brilliance so he lives in the one state where it would even b... Jul 3 2007, 09:12 AM ambernoelnichols Whoa.... Engaged at 12. If I would have been engag... Jul 3 2007, 09:25 AM yobaka3 I think it's sad that there making her get mar... Jul 3 2007, 09:56 AM ambernoelnichols QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 09:56 AM) I t... Jul 3 2007, 10:06 AM yobaka3 QUOTE(ambernoelnichols @ Jul 3 2007, 11:0... Jul 3 2007, 11:35 AM ambernoelnichols QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 11:35 AM) Who... Jul 3 2007, 11:46 AM yobaka3 QUOTE(ambernoelnichols @ Jul 3 2007, 12:4... Jul 3 2007, 12:55 PM voguelove did he give you a ring? Jul 3 2007, 10:47 AM Becks539 QUOTEyou are an idioooooootttttttt.
Actually they... Jul 3 2007, 11:06 AM pinacoolada Um. Don't take things like that seriously, esp... Jul 3 2007, 12:04 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 2 2007, 09:27 PM) hey ... Jul 3 2007, 12:20 PM crazeegirl411 ^Are you reading? It doesn't look like the pe... Jul 3 2007, 12:29 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(crazeegirl411 @ Jul 3 2007, 01:29 P... Jul 3 2007, 12:51 PM Arjuna Capulong I remember you saying that you're not even sur... Jul 3 2007, 12:30 PM pinacoolada QUOTEYea I read it lol. Im just saying she might d... Jul 3 2007, 01:00 PM yobaka3 QUOTE(pinacoolada @ Jul 3 2007, 02:00 PM)... Jul 3 2007, 01:01 PM Flair Oh my. Do you (you and your 'fiance') know... Jul 3 2007, 01:13 PM towntown2 Well, if someone gets down on one knee, asks you t... Jul 3 2007, 01:15 PM Endless_Symphony you're still really young. while your boyfrien... Jul 3 2007, 03:06 PM pinacoolada I think you're making it up.
Either that, or ... Jul 3 2007, 03:51 PM Tamacracker I think in India (not 100% sure) the fathers look ... Jul 3 2007, 03:57 PM Flair QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 3 2007, 10:57 PM)... Jul 3 2007, 04:50 PM yobaka3 QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 3 2007, 05:50 PM) You e... Jul 3 2007, 04:51 PM Brilliance ^ what the heck are you talking about? apparently ... Jul 3 2007, 04:31 PM Tamacracker I was just givin my opinion about engagement at yo... Jul 3 2007, 05:17 PM yobaka3 QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 3 2007, 06:17 PM)... Jul 3 2007, 05:31 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 06:31 PM) Wha... Jul 3 2007, 05:43 PM Flair WTF? You attack EVERYONE in the debate forum yet Y... Jul 3 2007, 05:25 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 3 2007, 06:25 PM) WTF? ... Jul 3 2007, 05:37 PM Flair Also, Tamacracker, if Yobaka bothers you that much... Jul 3 2007, 05:36 PM Flair It's an open forum so she can't avoid you.... Jul 3 2007, 05:39 PM doomXL QUOTE(XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX @ Jul 3 ... Jul 3 2007, 07:41 PM Brilliance lol that kid tama should be friends with that othe... Jul 3 2007, 08:20 PM yobaka3 You have never once apologized to me. Not even onc... Jul 3 2007, 09:42 PM Tamacracker QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 10:42 PM) You... Jul 4 2007, 01:21 AM Rachel Good lord, take to PM's already or just give i... Jul 4 2007, 01:25 AM Relentless Woah. Engaged at 12? Don't you need that marri... Jul 4 2007, 07:33 PM Nicky =D Well, in my oponion its not really an engaged righ... Jul 4 2007, 08:00 PM Synesthesia Are you sure he was being serious? You didn't ... Jul 4 2007, 08:55 PM |
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