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post Jul 2 2007, 08:27 PM
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hey what do you have to do to be legally engaged?....cause...i think i might be....? long story short he got down asked if i would marry him i said i do and here i am....wierd...
 
 
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post Jul 3 2007, 03:57 PM
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I think in India (not 100% sure) the fathers look for a male friend in which has a child of the opposite sex, (most of the time the fathers are friends) and if they're pleased with each other's family and their children (assuming their manners, health, morals etc...) they marry their children as young as 8-9 years old. BUT! All they do is make a permanent bond with the kids, and they separate each other to grow up and then come to each other to be together forever.

So basically it takes away the idea of children later on fornicating and having random relationships as they grow older.

So the idea of children being engaged isn't all that bad, but of course in the western world we associate sex with engagement and marriage. It's the norm in our society... premarital sex is even acceptable. In other parts of the world it's frowned upon.

The western thought of this 12 year old being engaged is nasty. But in a worldly view it's just part of a culture(s). Now if the topic read, "12 year old children fornicating after engagement", then maybe I would have to say, "OMFGWTFBBQ?!??!"

Anyways, that's my .02 cents.
 
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post Jul 3 2007, 04:50 PM
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QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 3 2007, 10:57 PM) *
I think in India (not 100% sure) the fathers look for a male friend in which has a child of the opposite sex, (most of the time the fathers are friends) and if they're pleased with each other's family and their children (assuming their manners, health, morals etc...) they marry their children as young as 8-9 years old. BUT! All they do is make a permanent bond with the kids, and they separate each other to grow up and then come to each other to be together forever.

So basically it takes away the idea of children later on fornicating and having random relationships as they grow older.

So the idea of children being engaged isn't all that bad, but of course in the western world we associate sex with engagement and marriage. It's the norm in our society... premarital sex is even acceptable. In other parts of the world it's frowned upon.

The western thought of this 12 year old being engaged is nasty. But in a worldly view it's just part of a culture(s). Now if the topic read, "12 year old children fornicating after engagement", then maybe I would have to say, "OMFGWTFBBQ?!??!"

Anyways, that's my .02 cents.

WHAT IN THE WORLD ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT? He is a 12 year old boy who got engaged to an 18 year old. India or no India, it is not right.

You enjoy blabbing from what I've seen.
 
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post Jul 3 2007, 04:51 PM
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QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 3 2007, 05:50 PM) *
You enjoy blabbing from what I've seen.


He's a babbler.
 

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doomXL   engaged at 12?   Jul 2 2007, 08:27 PM
HakunaMatata   Okay. So there's no law prohibiting engagemen...   Jul 2 2007, 08:29 PM
tininja   *points at what Kaycee said* How do you think you...   Jul 2 2007, 08:32 PM
designingskills   You'll be lucky if you ever see him again afte...   Jul 2 2007, 08:40 PM
MyMichelle   No age. Congrats! Good luck on the marriage...   Jul 2 2007, 08:44 PM
Mercy   QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jul 3 2007, 01:44 AM) ...   Jul 2 2007, 08:52 PM
doomXL   lol theres a big age difference...which makess it ...   Jul 2 2007, 08:47 PM
MyMichelle   QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 2 2007, 08:47 PM) lol ...   Jul 2 2007, 08:53 PM
minioligo   QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 2 2007, 09:47 PM) lol ...   Jul 3 2007, 03:16 PM
marzipan   QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 2 2007, 08:47 PM) lol ...   Jul 3 2007, 03:22 PM
Brilliance   ....this guy is 18? and hes with you...a 12 year o...   Jul 2 2007, 08:51 PM
Angelina Taylor   ahahahahaha.. Talk to you in a week, when you...   Jul 2 2007, 10:52 PM
ojairus   i thought gay marriage was bannned....   Jul 3 2007, 12:44 AM
Rachel   QUOTE(ojairus @ Jul 2 2007, 10:44 PM) i t...   Jul 3 2007, 02:10 AM
Mercy   QUOTE(ojairus @ Jul 3 2007, 05:44 AM) i t...   Jul 3 2007, 08:21 AM
sarmanas   REMOVED   Jul 3 2007, 01:11 AM
nosylilme   ^ Wow..umm..well, you need parental consent if ...   Jul 3 2007, 01:18 AM
yobaka3   :| As far as I know engagement is a cultural thin...   Jul 3 2007, 02:06 AM
Moderator   Well, like the others said, there is no age to be ...   Jul 3 2007, 07:34 AM
twilightsamurai   Say what? 12 + 18 yr old engaged. lawlz. Okay, so ...   Jul 3 2007, 08:38 AM
Brilliance   so he lives in the one state where it would even b...   Jul 3 2007, 09:12 AM
ambernoelnichols   Whoa.... Engaged at 12. If I would have been engag...   Jul 3 2007, 09:25 AM
yobaka3   I think it's sad that there making her get mar...   Jul 3 2007, 09:56 AM
ambernoelnichols   QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 09:56 AM) I t...   Jul 3 2007, 10:06 AM
yobaka3   QUOTE(ambernoelnichols @ Jul 3 2007, 11:0...   Jul 3 2007, 11:35 AM
ambernoelnichols   QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 11:35 AM) Who...   Jul 3 2007, 11:46 AM
yobaka3   QUOTE(ambernoelnichols @ Jul 3 2007, 12:4...   Jul 3 2007, 12:55 PM
voguelove   did he give you a ring?   Jul 3 2007, 10:47 AM
Becks539   QUOTEyou are an idioooooootttttttt. Actually they...   Jul 3 2007, 11:06 AM
pinacoolada   Um. Don't take things like that seriously, esp...   Jul 3 2007, 12:04 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 2 2007, 09:27 PM) hey ...   Jul 3 2007, 12:20 PM
crazeegirl411   ^Are you reading? It doesn't look like the pe...   Jul 3 2007, 12:29 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   QUOTE(crazeegirl411 @ Jul 3 2007, 01:29 P...   Jul 3 2007, 12:51 PM
Arjuna Capulong   I remember you saying that you're not even sur...   Jul 3 2007, 12:30 PM
pinacoolada   QUOTEYea I read it lol. Im just saying she might d...   Jul 3 2007, 01:00 PM
yobaka3   QUOTE(pinacoolada @ Jul 3 2007, 02:00 PM)...   Jul 3 2007, 01:01 PM
Flair   Oh my. Do you (you and your 'fiance') know...   Jul 3 2007, 01:13 PM
towntown2   Well, if someone gets down on one knee, asks you t...   Jul 3 2007, 01:15 PM
Endless_Symphony   you're still really young. while your boyfrien...   Jul 3 2007, 03:06 PM
pinacoolada   I think you're making it up. Either that, or ...   Jul 3 2007, 03:51 PM
Tamacracker   I think in India (not 100% sure) the fathers look ...   Jul 3 2007, 03:57 PM
Flair   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 3 2007, 10:57 PM)...   Jul 3 2007, 04:50 PM
yobaka3   QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 3 2007, 05:50 PM) You e...   Jul 3 2007, 04:51 PM
Brilliance   ^ what the heck are you talking about? apparently ...   Jul 3 2007, 04:31 PM
yobaka3   I'm technically not allowed to post to his top...   Jul 3 2007, 04:43 PM
ambernoelnichols   QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 04:43 PM) I...   Jul 3 2007, 05:11 PM
Tamacracker   I was just givin my opinion about engagement at yo...   Jul 3 2007, 05:17 PM
yobaka3   QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Jul 3 2007, 06:17 PM)...   Jul 3 2007, 05:31 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 06:31 PM) Wha...   Jul 3 2007, 05:43 PM
Flair   WTF? You attack EVERYONE in the debate forum yet Y...   Jul 3 2007, 05:25 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 3 2007, 06:25 PM) WTF? ...   Jul 3 2007, 05:37 PM
Flair   Also, Tamacracker, if Yobaka bothers you that much...   Jul 3 2007, 05:36 PM
Flair   It's an open forum so she can't avoid you....   Jul 3 2007, 05:39 PM
doomXL   QUOTE(XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX @ Jul 3 ...   Jul 3 2007, 07:41 PM
Brilliance   lol that kid tama should be friends with that othe...   Jul 3 2007, 08:20 PM
yobaka3   You have never once apologized to me. Not even onc...   Jul 3 2007, 09:42 PM
Tamacracker   QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jul 3 2007, 10:42 PM) You...   Jul 4 2007, 01:21 AM
Rachel   Good lord, take to PM's already or just give i...   Jul 4 2007, 01:25 AM
Relentless   Woah. Engaged at 12? Don't you need that marri...   Jul 4 2007, 07:33 PM
Nicky =D   Well, in my oponion its not really an engaged righ...   Jul 4 2007, 08:00 PM
Synesthesia   Are you sure he was being serious? You didn't ...   Jul 4 2007, 08:55 PM


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