My relationship problem, help me Options

[Trinie]

Ok, me and my bf have been together for 8 and a half years already. we've been together since we were both in 8th grade. our relationship is good, i guess. but now he graduated from school and he has a real job now. as for me im still in school and going to graduate next year.

now here is the problem. since he has a "REAL JOB" now. i barely see him. i do see him on the weekends and sometimes i dont because he also works on the weekends. my friend tells me its a good thing because when we do see each other we'll want each other more and really look forward to being with each other.

but it doesnt seem that way. like im always the one who wants to see him all the time. im always excited to see him and very happy. but sometimes im not sure if he isnt like happy to see me. also here is another problem, affection towards each other is so-so, sex is i dont even know, i swear it feels like we havent done it in forever, but i do make and effort but he always tells me he is tired and stuff.

then sometimes i think he could be cheating on me. :(
i dont know, it sounds like im not making sense. i love him and i know he wouldnt do anything like that to me. but it feels like our love and everything we have is fading away. but i dont know, maybe im not being understanding, maybe im being selfish....

does anyone have the same problem?? give me some suggestions please.

[Trinie]

thanks for the advice sweety. :)
marriage and moving in is both in our minds. we really want to do this too. knowing me i'd probably want to get married right away. but i know now is probably not the right time , since im in school and i dont have a stable job. but we've talked about it and i do plan to move in a year or two.

also i know he does work alot. and lastnight he just told me again he is working for the both of us, to build our future. just hearing that made me really happy and the little things im worrying about isn't really such a big deal. but im just trynig to get used to him working 60 almost 70 hours a week. its hard but i guess thats life right?