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My relationship problem, help me
Trinie
post Jun 28 2007, 06:00 PM
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Ok, me and my bf have been together for 8 and a half years already. we've been together since we were both in 8th grade. our relationship is good, i guess. but now he graduated from school and he has a real job now. as for me im still in school and going to graduate next year.

now here is the problem. since he has a "REAL JOB" now. i barely see him. i do see him on the weekends and sometimes i dont because he also works on the weekends. my friend tells me its a good thing because when we do see each other we'll want each other more and really look forward to being with each other.

but it doesnt seem that way. like im always the one who wants to see him all the time. im always excited to see him and very happy. but sometimes im not sure if he isnt like happy to see me. also here is another problem, affection towards each other is so-so, sex is i dont even know, i swear it feels like we havent done it in forever, but i do make and effort but he always tells me he is tired and stuff.

then sometimes i think he could be cheating on me. :(
i dont know, it sounds like im not making sense. i love him and i know he wouldnt do anything like that to me. but it feels like our love and everything we have is fading away. but i dont know, maybe im not being understanding, maybe im being selfish....

does anyone have the same problem?? give me some suggestions please.
 
 
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*steve330*
post Jun 28 2007, 07:21 PM
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Maybe you should consider his situation instead of worrying about how sad you are. If you're happiness is solely dependent on his presence, then you sound a little too dependent on him. Sure it's great if you're happier when he's around, I'm that way with my girlfriend. Just find something else to do, the world isn't that boring...
 
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post Jun 28 2007, 07:30 PM
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QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 28 2007, 04:21 PM) *
Maybe you should consider his situation instead of worrying about how sad you are. If you're happiness is solely dependent on his presence, then you sound a little too dependent on him. Sure it's great if you're happier when he's around, I'm that way with my girlfriend. Just find something else to do, the world isn't that boring...


i do consider his situation. i respect that he works a lot and doing everything for our future. i know i do depend on him a lot. but thats just how some girls are. but i do keep myself busy, i have tons of friends and a lot of things to do. there are just those times when i really do miss him and wishing he was there. he's already worked for this company for about 2 months already and they are already going to give him a raise and a promotion. so i am definitely happy for him. and he usually works 60-70 hours a week, thats why i dont see him that much. but hey thanks for the advice.
 

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