My relationship problem, help me Options

[Trinie]

Ok, me and my bf have been together for 8 and a half years already. we've been together since we were both in 8th grade. our relationship is good, i guess. but now he graduated from school and he has a real job now. as for me im still in school and going to graduate next year.

now here is the problem. since he has a "REAL JOB" now. i barely see him. i do see him on the weekends and sometimes i dont because he also works on the weekends. my friend tells me its a good thing because when we do see each other we'll want each other more and really look forward to being with each other.

but it doesnt seem that way. like im always the one who wants to see him all the time. im always excited to see him and very happy. but sometimes im not sure if he isnt like happy to see me. also here is another problem, affection towards each other is so-so, sex is i dont even know, i swear it feels like we havent done it in forever, but i do make and effort but he always tells me he is tired and stuff.

then sometimes i think he could be cheating on me. :(
i dont know, it sounds like im not making sense. i love him and i know he wouldnt do anything like that to me. but it feels like our love and everything we have is fading away. but i dont know, maybe im not being understanding, maybe im being selfish....

does anyone have the same problem?? give me some suggestions please.

[jeSs1cA]

i feel the same way as you do! with summer here, i barely see my boyfriend anymore. and it's hard for me, because i am the type of girl that loves to hang out and just be with him and cuddle, but it's so hard for me to do so when he's always busy doing stuff. and when he does have a free moment, he usually either sleeping or hanging out with his friend who hates me!

we've only been dating since november though, so it's not as long as 8 years.

but still, i sometimes feel like he doesn't even care about me.. and i'll text him sometimes saying "i love you" & he acts like he's annoyed that i'm even texting him with the way he responds.