sigh., ... Options

[y0urelectrikk]

so there's this guy I'm in love with.. he broke up with me about 3 months ago and he pretty much shut me out of his life.. but the other night I saw him for the first time since we broke up.. and things were like.. normal again, like when we were going out.. and before I left he kissed me. Then the next day he goes back to shutting me out of his life and pretending like the other night never happened. I asked my friend who was also there the other night if he said anything about me after I left. My friend told me he said that he still loves me but he's doing me a favor by not being with me because I "deserve better". blah.. I don't want better.. I just want him. and I've told him that many times. I just wish I could do something to get him back again.

any ideas of what I could possibly do? I would seriously do anything for this boy.

[*digitalfragrance*]

He obviously still cares for you... but his behaviour suggests that he's not confident in himself or he's trying to resolve a matter in his own life that he is not happy about. I mean, heck, why else would he want you and push you away at the same time?!

My advice is this. Don't chase him... you have let him know how you feel. Tell him the ball is in his court. Little tokens as proof of your love for him are fine, but ultimately he's made this his decision.

But, don't wait forever... allow your heart to heal and reach out to others. If he solves this self-esteem problem of his, you guys will be fine... if not, you shouldn't have to wait.