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 Jun 24 2007, 08:11 PM
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okay so there's this guy,and we both like each other-- but i couldn't figure out why he hadn't asked me out so after we got in a fight i decided i would go ahead and throw it at him asking why we weren't dating and he said because of summer..but he wanted to stay friends with benefits. so i agreed with it that we would be friends with benefits,and then maybe something later.well thursday we went to the movies,and since then he had been acting weird.. kinda being mean and he didn't call me at all, but on AIM he acted weird.. well little did i know the reasoning--at least i think why-- is because i found out a couple nights ago from a friend that saturday night he was at the movies with some girl and they made out and he stuck his hand up her shirt and that the next day he was begging his friend for the details on what she thought..
 well he's at the beach right now.. and he doesn't know that i know or anything.. and idk what to do. tell him i know? see how he acts when he comes back from the beach? forget about it bc we aren't dating? |
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Jun 24 2007, 08:44 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
First thing you need to be positive that it happened. Not saying not to trust your friend but make sure it really did happen. (Not saying it didn't because it sounds like it did but still)
Out of everything you said I wouldn't ignore it. Thats kind of stupid to date the guy if he likes someone else.I would suggest just talking to him about it or in your words "letting him know" but don't turn into one of those girls that gets used by a guy afterward. Keep your eyes and ears open especially if you guys end up getting together. Since you guys were friends with benefits when he was with the other girl, it sucks but technically he wasn't dating you and yea. Really I think the guy is weird. He doesn't date you because its "summer" but he might end up dating another girl. I think for real though you both need to check your feelings for each other out. *shrugs* |
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Jun 27 2007, 12:27 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(freeflow @ Jun 24 2007, 09:44 PM)  First thing you need to be positive that it happened. Not saying not to trust your friend but make sure it really did happen. (Not saying it didn't because it sounds like it did but still) Out of everything you said I wouldn't ignore it. Thats kind of stupid to date the guy if he likes someone else.I would suggest just talking to him about it or in your words "letting him know" but don't turn into one of those girls that gets used by a guy afterward. Keep your eyes and ears open especially if you guys end up getting together. Since you guys were friends with benefits when he was with the other girl, it sucks but technically he wasn't dating you and yea. Really I think the guy is weird. He doesn't date you because its "summer" but he might end up dating another girl. I think for real though you both need to check your feelings for each other out. *shrugs* I agree. |
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aRiiaNa wtf? Jun 24 2007, 08:11 PM
AlextheShineyPenny First of all, don't ever talk to that guy agai... Jun 24 2007, 09:04 PM
aRiiaNa QUOTE(AlextheShineyPenny @ Jun 24 2007, 09... Jun 24 2007, 09:16 PM
Cujiine QUOTE(AlextheShineyPenny @ Jun 24 2007, 07... Jun 24 2007, 09:43 PM aRiiaNa Yeah,Thanks up there ^^. Jun 24 2007, 11:37 PM steve330 Do you really need to ask about someone like that?... Jun 27 2007, 01:32 PM |
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