Sex- a relationship builder, can it really bring harm to your relationship Options

[kinjak1tty]

I apologize if this there were another topic like this. I didn't see one
Sex is suppose to be relationship builder. I view sex as a commitment to the other sex. Though for those of you who had involved sex in your relationships and do not mind sharing your input here, do you think it had a - effect on the relationship? Personally it hasnt been involved with intamcy in my relationships. ....curious about your all thoughts.

[xsweetxsugarx]

Unlike a lot of people now a days, I am going to save myself for marriage. It's one of the few things I'm gonna be able to give the guy that would be the first time for me. Oral is just kinda disgusting for me cause it's like... why would you wanna shove your face down by something that smells that strongly and I'd gag on a guys penis... Anal is also disgusting to me cause it's like... what happens if I have poo up there and... *shudders* so yeah. Vaginal only for me and not till marriage. Sex should be something between two people who love each other and don't want to hurt the other. I hate when I hear about guys going out and buying like seventeen prostitutes in one night cause it's like, either find a girl, use your hand or go buy a butter nut squash and some bananas and make a fake vagina.

^ whoa. that's scary...poo? i would never have anal sex either.

i think everybody has different opinions on things. and i'm glad u feel strongly about saving it for marriage. that would make it more special for your husband.