if you are older..., the issue of age Options

[aznlyka]

i'm a girl. my question for the men is:

if you are 7 years older than a girl who's legal, would you have a relationship with her?

let's say your 25 and the girl is 18. is that wrong.

just want to know. please be a bit serious in your responses please.

[gr00vyswordsman]

--> Relationships

Sticking with the 7 year interval, it can mean a lot of things.

There are 7 years of difference between a 10 year old and a 17 year old. Yet there is a huge maturity gap. A 10 year old is in fifth grade, while a 17 year old could have graduated high school. So many experiences that they haven't shared, and they are at completely different levels in their lives.

It's not so much the same between a 28 year old and a 35 year old. They both probably have shared more of the same experiences.

as she mentioned above, its not so much the age but the experiences :). Personally, Ive dated someone much older than I. She was a little older than me by 15 years. And it definitely can work, and for me, it was a nice experience. It is interesting because you both have different experiences, and she has some that you may not yet. We were both insightful for each other. Ill admit that it may take a faith step on both your guys parts.

For some time my friends & family couldn't empathize our bond. I feel more comfortable with a lady thats older. Mainly from the paths&way way I grew up in life is why. But anyways, not to digress about "my friends."

My friends got over it. Out of my bucket full of many friends, Only 2 were weird about it in the first place. So, its cool :) We dated for about 4 months. We broke off the relationship because I had to move without the thought of moving back.