How old is too old?, should age really be a factor Options

[aznlyka]

it seems as women grow older and more mature, how much older a guy is than the chick doesn't seem to be such an issue. my mom is 45 and my dad 53, that's not a big deal, am i right? 8 year diff, but old is old, lol.

but then i JUST TURNED 18 and there's this coworker thats 25. 7 year diff, but that seems wrong to probably the majority of on lookers. i'm not sleeping with him, or in a relationship, but there's definetly something between us, but it feels like it's wrong to even think of starting a relationship with the dude.

when ladies get older and wiser, it seems more socially acceptable to be with a guy who's 5, 6, 7, ... 10 years older because they are women who know what they're doing, who has lived life and experienced relationships. i'm 18, i have a whole lot yet to experience.

maybe i'm not as mature as i feel i am, but i really like this guy, and i'm sure he likes me, but i only just turned 18 and he's 25. what to do? what to think?

ladies, this issue should be discussed.

[lorrytruck;]

I am 15 and when I was 14 I once had a 18 yr old bf (we didn't do anything!) I think it's alright, but sometimes when the age difference is too far apart (like... I don't know. 20 yr olds and 50 yr olds?) I guess personally if I'm comfortable with who I'm with it's always fine, it's only when i start to think "hey i was 2 when he was 15!" or something, that scares me. Haha I hope i'm not confusing anyone; I probably am though