How old is too old?, should age really be a factor Options

[aznlyka]

it seems as women grow older and more mature, how much older a guy is than the chick doesn't seem to be such an issue. my mom is 45 and my dad 53, that's not a big deal, am i right? 8 year diff, but old is old, lol.

but then i JUST TURNED 18 and there's this coworker thats 25. 7 year diff, but that seems wrong to probably the majority of on lookers. i'm not sleeping with him, or in a relationship, but there's definetly something between us, but it feels like it's wrong to even think of starting a relationship with the dude.

when ladies get older and wiser, it seems more socially acceptable to be with a guy who's 5, 6, 7, ... 10 years older because they are women who know what they're doing, who has lived life and experienced relationships. i'm 18, i have a whole lot yet to experience.

maybe i'm not as mature as i feel i am, but i really like this guy, and i'm sure he likes me, but i only just turned 18 and he's 25. what to do? what to think?

ladies, this issue should be discussed.

[trulyandnever]

Aww... well I reckon if you think your not mature enough to be with him... give it a go anyway!
Assuming you guys seriously wanna hook up.

I'm just one of them people that wanna experience everything in life though.
& dating a older guy doesnt sound that bad.
(Better than the other way around in my opinion anyway).

Age is like.. a number. Its one of my favorite sayings, simply because its so true.
My BF's a year older than I, but I feel I've passed him in maturity by a long shot. Still love him though.


My ex step dad and mother were together 7 years: He's 45, she's 34 (9 year difference).
My new step dad is 21 and my mum's still 34. Whacked up shit nuh? 13 year difference.

But I mean, if they seriously love eachother... why not?

Go for it :)