Bestfriend Boyfriend Clashing, What do I do when they don't like each other? Options

[ShimmyLovesYou]

So I've been going with this guy for about a month or so now, and I just got back from an incredibly long trip. Before I left I told him to try to get to know my bestfriend, because he wants to be together for a long time, so I think its important that they know each other. Well they talked for about a week before not talking anymore. I got back home and she basically said that she wants me to be careful around him, which I totally understood, and that she isn't too fond of him, which again I understood. So I was talking to him today and she came up and he said she was a bitch...which REALLY bothered me. I told him not to call her that in front of me, he asked if he could tell her that himself, and again I said no. He feels wronged by her (She tested him quite a bit while I was gone...she's my bestfriend so naturally she wanted to make sure he's a good guy...)

Anywho now I'm upset and I don't know how to handle the situation. I told him he's gonna have to get used to her but he basically brushed it off. I like him, but I don't like him calling my bestfriend something that she's not.

What do I do????

[ShimmyLovesYou]

Yeah it really does suck.

Well, she doesn't like him because of the way he made me feel in the beginning. We hooked up, and he like...started planning out our lives together, which made me pretty uncomfortable, she didn't like that at all. And his temper, he gets mad very very easily, so that turned her off as well. Ultimately, she's worried about how he'll effect me.