Bestfriend Boyfriend Clashing, What do I do when they don't like each other? |
 Jun 22 2007, 10:03 PM
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So I've been going with this guy for about a month or so now, and I just got back from an incredibly long trip. Before I left I told him to try to get to know my bestfriend, because he wants to be together for a long time, so I think its important that they know each other. Well they talked for about a week before not talking anymore. I got back home and she basically said that she wants me to be careful around him, which I totally understood, and that she isn't too fond of him, which again I understood. So I was talking to him today and she came up and he said she was a bitch...which REALLY bothered me. I told him not to call her that in front of me, he asked if he could tell her that himself, and again I said no. He feels wronged by her (She tested him quite a bit while I was gone...she's my bestfriend so naturally she wanted to make sure he's a good guy...)
Anywho now I'm upset and I don't know how to handle the situation. I told him he's gonna have to get used to her but he basically brushed it off. I like him, but I don't like him calling my bestfriend something that she's not. What do I do???? |
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Jun 22 2007, 10:18 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
hmm, i have a similar problem. my bf hates my best friend. it sucks! but it was through her that i met him, funny huh?
well he used to have a crush on her and then she led him on and then started going out with her current bf from what i understand, hes still pissed about it and about other stuff. i just tell them to keep me out of it...thats about the only way to do it i tried threatening him (this was before i really started to LOVE him) that i'd break up with him if he didnt start being nice to her...but that was really stupid of me. so dont do that! uh, i just try to ignore it tho. tell them that you dont want to hear it, from either side. otherwise your just gonna get stuck in the midde which equals BAD IDEA. i'm still kind of struggling with it but oh well. i love him so thats what counts. |
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ShimmyLovesYou Bestfriend Boyfriend Clashing Jun 22 2007, 10:03 PM
yobaka3 Funny thing is, friends aren't supposed to ... Jun 22 2007, 10:09 PM ShimmyLovesYou Yeah, the problem is she apologized to him a whole... Jun 22 2007, 10:13 PM yobaka3 Well it makes me wonder what really went on then. ... Jun 22 2007, 10:14 PM karmakiller You have to understand both sides. He shouldn... Jun 22 2007, 10:15 PM ShimmyLovesYou Well she told me up front when I got home, and whe... Jun 22 2007, 10:59 PM ShimmyLovesYou Yeah it really does suck.
Well, she doesn't l... Jun 22 2007, 11:03 PM BLAZINASIAN Your best friend probably screwed him, and they... Jun 23 2007, 11:30 AM
steve330 I don't see what the big deal is when someone ... Jun 23 2007, 11:34 AM |
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