Long-Term Boyfriend, Me, & New Guy.. Options

[cutey2kc]

Ok, so here's my dilemma, straight to the point.
I have been with my boyfriend for a year and almost one month now, and things were going SOO well, like i swear, i really thought i fell in love. And, all of a sudden I get closer to this new guy, but who is leaving for college (graduated senior). BTW, me and my boyfriend are in the same grade, 11th.

So, i asked my friend to ask the new guy if he liked me, and he said "i wont lie, i do." And he told my friend that the only thing that's holding him back from making a move on me is my bf.

And I love my boyfriend, i really do, but at the same time, i like the other guy, and it's killing the hell out of me! The other guy and me keep talking for the past couple of days for like 3-4 hours on the phone. And the more i start talking to him, and getting to know him more, the more i have these feelings for him.

I'm just so scared of change. It's hard to let go of something that you've built up from, and had so many memories with. And, i mean, i guess the reason why i haven't felt like this ever before, is because no other guy came into the picture...until now.

And so, I know this guy likes me for sure, but he's just too afraid to get closer to me since i have a bf. My bf has no idea about this. And I have feelings for this other guy, but at the same time, also for my long-term boyfriend.

Please help me. Im in desperate need of advice. I dont know what to do. :/.

[transcendentalis...]

you sound just like my ex boyfriend. he dumped me for the exact same reason. the only things different between our situations is that i'm a year younger than my ex and his new girlfriend is his age.

if you want to stay with your boyfriend, then avoid the hell out of the other guy.

what melissa and steve said.