Long-Term Boyfriend, Me, & New Guy.. Options

[cutey2kc]

Ok, so here's my dilemma, straight to the point.
I have been with my boyfriend for a year and almost one month now, and things were going SOO well, like i swear, i really thought i fell in love. And, all of a sudden I get closer to this new guy, but who is leaving for college (graduated senior). BTW, me and my boyfriend are in the same grade, 11th.

So, i asked my friend to ask the new guy if he liked me, and he said "i wont lie, i do." And he told my friend that the only thing that's holding him back from making a move on me is my bf.

And I love my boyfriend, i really do, but at the same time, i like the other guy, and it's killing the hell out of me! The other guy and me keep talking for the past couple of days for like 3-4 hours on the phone. And the more i start talking to him, and getting to know him more, the more i have these feelings for him.

I'm just so scared of change. It's hard to let go of something that you've built up from, and had so many memories with. And, i mean, i guess the reason why i haven't felt like this ever before, is because no other guy came into the picture...until now.

And so, I know this guy likes me for sure, but he's just too afraid to get closer to me since i have a bf. My bf has no idea about this. And I have feelings for this other guy, but at the same time, also for my long-term boyfriend.

Please help me. Im in desperate need of advice. I dont know what to do. :/.

[mytangerine]

'you only live once' totally cliche but that was the first thing that came to mind when i read your situation. if you have strong feelings for this new guy, go with him. as heartless as that sounds, i would probably do that /: