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Which is better?, All or nothing?
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post Jun 15 2007, 08:47 AM
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All right, I've been thinking about it for a while and I wanted to get your oppinions.Which do you think is better in a relationship with a boyfriend/girlfriendd: 1)Having almost nothing in common or 2)Having pretty much everything in common.

1)If you don't have a lot in common, you might lose interest in the person, due to lack of having something to talk about, right?But...A lot of times people say "opposites attract".From what I've seen, a lot of times in relationships where the two people don't have a lot in common, the often get the feeling that the other person "completes" them.It's one of those "you're everything I'm not" types of things.

2)If you do have a lot in common with the person, you'll almost always have something to talk about that interests both of you, correct?But, I mean, you could get bored.Like...Talking to someone who's almost exactly like you would get old eventually, wouldn't it?

So, what you you all think?
 
 
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fathomlessdame
post Jun 17 2007, 01:39 PM
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well i dont have too much in common with my boyfriend. but he's a gamer and is slowly turning me into one i think

meh, i think if you haveeverything in common, like could get pretty boring. but if you dont have things in common..at least at first... you can learn alot and be exposed to new and different things
 

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XRosesXAreXBlackXX   Which is better?   Jun 15 2007, 08:47 AM
31miracles   Both, I believe you can make love work no matter h...   Jun 15 2007, 09:40 AM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   I think I would rather have everything in common t...   Jun 15 2007, 11:10 AM
JustAnotherTeenageLoser   Ok, well from experience I'd say 'all...   Jun 15 2007, 11:24 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   Yeah...I think I agree with XxSugarKisses-TeddyHug...   Jun 15 2007, 01:19 PM
stephinika   For me personally, I'd say everything. The mor...   Jun 15 2007, 02:31 PM
steve330   Mix of both. Different interests/hobbies with sim...   Jun 15 2007, 02:39 PM
through-with-you   QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 15 2007, 08:39 PM) M...   Jun 15 2007, 04:31 PM
Monokuro-Boo   It's impossible to have everything in common, ...   Jun 15 2007, 03:04 PM
sweetest-emotion   yeah with either you just need to work at the rela...   Jun 15 2007, 11:39 PM
JoanOfArc   I think its better if you have a little bit of bot...   Jun 16 2007, 12:11 AM
luxuriate   Fact: Opposites attract but its usually a stressfu...   Jun 16 2007, 05:30 AM
Angelina Taylor   From all the relationships I've had, my curren...   Jun 16 2007, 09:53 AM
ladysovereigna   I liked this forum, take a look at these: REMOVED   Jun 16 2007, 10:20 AM
cupcakex   It depends. No one wants to date someone that...   Jun 17 2007, 09:47 AM
fathomlessdame   well i dont have too much in common with my boyfri...   Jun 17 2007, 01:39 PM
xburnoutx00   My boyfriend and I have a lot in common, but we do...   Jun 17 2007, 03:09 PM


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