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Which is better?, All or nothing?
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post Jun 15 2007, 08:47 AM
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All right, I've been thinking about it for a while and I wanted to get your oppinions.Which do you think is better in a relationship with a boyfriend/girlfriendd: 1)Having almost nothing in common or 2)Having pretty much everything in common.

1)If you don't have a lot in common, you might lose interest in the person, due to lack of having something to talk about, right?But...A lot of times people say "opposites attract".From what I've seen, a lot of times in relationships where the two people don't have a lot in common, the often get the feeling that the other person "completes" them.It's one of those "you're everything I'm not" types of things.

2)If you do have a lot in common with the person, you'll almost always have something to talk about that interests both of you, correct?But, I mean, you could get bored.Like...Talking to someone who's almost exactly like you would get old eventually, wouldn't it?

So, what you you all think?
 
 
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post Jun 16 2007, 12:11 AM
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I think its better if you have a little bit of both. Its bad if you have too much or too little in common. You need a jist of both for the balance. If you have nothing in common, you never get bored. If you have a lot in common, you bond more. Depends what you want in a relationship.
 

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XRosesXAreXBlackXX   Which is better?   Jun 15 2007, 08:47 AM
31miracles   Both, I believe you can make love work no matter h...   Jun 15 2007, 09:40 AM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   I think I would rather have everything in common t...   Jun 15 2007, 11:10 AM
JustAnotherTeenageLoser   Ok, well from experience I'd say 'all...   Jun 15 2007, 11:24 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   Yeah...I think I agree with XxSugarKisses-TeddyHug...   Jun 15 2007, 01:19 PM
stephinika   For me personally, I'd say everything. The mor...   Jun 15 2007, 02:31 PM
steve330   Mix of both. Different interests/hobbies with sim...   Jun 15 2007, 02:39 PM
through-with-you   QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 15 2007, 08:39 PM) M...   Jun 15 2007, 04:31 PM
Monokuro-Boo   It's impossible to have everything in common, ...   Jun 15 2007, 03:04 PM
sweetest-emotion   yeah with either you just need to work at the rela...   Jun 15 2007, 11:39 PM
JoanOfArc   I think its better if you have a little bit of bot...   Jun 16 2007, 12:11 AM
luxuriate   Fact: Opposites attract but its usually a stressfu...   Jun 16 2007, 05:30 AM
Angelina Taylor   From all the relationships I've had, my curren...   Jun 16 2007, 09:53 AM
ladysovereigna   I liked this forum, take a look at these: REMOVED   Jun 16 2007, 10:20 AM
cupcakex   It depends. No one wants to date someone that...   Jun 17 2007, 09:47 AM
fathomlessdame   well i dont have too much in common with my boyfri...   Jun 17 2007, 01:39 PM
xburnoutx00   My boyfriend and I have a lot in common, but we do...   Jun 17 2007, 03:09 PM


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