a friend forgotten..., apparently... Options

[asiangetokewl]

So hmmm... how can I say this...? I REALLY REALLY REALLY hate my ex... well I guess not "hate" rather... I'm sad and sorta hurt for something she did... Well here's the story:

My old pastor attended my grandma's birthday party today. He asked why wasn't I at valerie's graduation. (valerie is my ex btw) I'm like "Her graduation?! Why wasn't I invited?!" (okay I know I'm not her bf anymore, but still, I've known her since 4th grade and that really hurt me that she didnt invite me) He told me that her graduation was last saturday. I'm like "wow... what the hell... I should've been there to say good bye to her..." (she's going off to college in the city) So yea... I'm really really hurt that she didn't invite me to her graduation... and... I feel that it was really wrong on her part that she didn't invite me to her graduation.... dah... I think I'm ready to move on then.... if she wants to abandon and forget me as a friend, so be it. I don't need to know her anymore.... she's totally messed...

What do you guys think??? Am I wrong for feeling this way or is she wrong for doing what she did...?

Please I need input... thanks...

[tinababy143]

i think what she did was not cool but also i think you're overreacting a bit..i think you should talk to her and ask her the reason she didnt invite you and if its because she doesnt want you as a friend anymore..then tell her you're fine with that ((if you are)) and that you wish she would have told you earlier so you didnt have to find out from someone else..thats always the worst way to find out bad news..