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post Jun 12 2007, 05:18 PM
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I'm bisexual, but my mom is, like, a complete homophobe.I don't know what I should do. :/ I haven't told her yet, because I'm not sure about how she'll react...Like, I don't think she'll hate me or anything, but...I honestly have no idea what she would do if she found out.

Help me??

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btw Sorry if there's already a topic like this that I missed.>_<
 
 
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post Jun 13 2007, 08:38 AM
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@lol lollipops: I'm not so sure about never telling her, because I don't really want to keep it a secret forver...((I'm sorry if I'm not making any sense right now.>__<))

@MyMichelle: Yeah, she's not religious she just, like...It's hard to explain.It's not that she completely hates everyone who's homosexual, but she uses terms like "fag" and instead of saying "stupid" she says "gay" and I've asked her not to do that and she kinda just laughs at me.The worst part of it is, is that when I was talking about one of my friends who's also bisexual, the first thing out of my mom's mouth was "That's disgusting".She seems to think that you either like one gender or the other, not both. =/

@cupcakex and alysaphobia: I think waiting might be the best way to go right now...'Cause, yeah, it's not really something that I feel like I need to tell her right now, I just don't want to have to hide it from her forever...

Thanks for everyone who's being supportive and trying to give ideas.It means a lot to me and I really appreciate it. :]
I think I'm just going to wait it out for a bit and try to think of the best time to tell her.
 
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post Jun 14 2007, 08:42 PM
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QUOTE(XRosesXAreXBlackXX @ Jun 13 2007, 09:38 AM) *
@lol lollipops: I'm not so sure about never telling her, because I don't really want to keep it a secret forver...((I'm sorry if I'm not making any sense right now.>__<))

I didn't mean never tell her, I just meant that maybe it'd be better that you'd tell her some other time or something.

QUOTE(JoanOfArc @ Jun 14 2007, 02:43 PM) *
She might not be happy with it, but she can't disown you.

Yes she can.

QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 14 2007, 08:47 PM) *
Please take this time to stop overanalysing everything I post, yes it does make you seem like a douche who has never and will never get pussy, I fully agree that I am an a-hole, but that in no way stops me from getting laid, unlike your know it all "let me tell you a thing or two" attitude, so get over yourself, please.

WOW, a guy like you can get laid?! ohmy.gif So I'm not hopeless after all!!!!! ohmy.gif
BTW, YOU NEED TO GET OVER YOURSELF, NOT VICE VERSA, KTHXBAI
 

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XRosesXAreXBlackXX   Help, please?   Jun 12 2007, 05:18 PM
RyanWasHere   Stop being a fag, and move on.   Jun 12 2007, 06:19 PM
Cujiine   ^ ok that doesn't help at all... Anyways. Jus...   Jun 12 2007, 06:30 PM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @RyanWasHere: Wow, thank you for that completely p...   Jun 12 2007, 06:32 PM
RyanWasHere   ^ & thank you for adding to the fag population...   Jun 12 2007, 07:09 PM
xburnoutx00   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 12 2007, 07:09 PM...   Jun 12 2007, 08:40 PM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @RyanWasHere: Thank you for adding to the Homophob...   Jun 12 2007, 07:32 PM
lol lollipops   Since you don't know how she'd react, I wo...   Jun 12 2007, 08:48 PM
MyMichelle   You don't need to necessarily tell your mom th...   Jun 12 2007, 11:39 PM
RyanWasHere   My opinion on how to help are just as valid as any...   Jun 13 2007, 02:22 AM
alysaphobia   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 03:22 PM...   Jun 13 2007, 03:31 AM
cupcakex   I think you should wait a little while. If you...   Jun 13 2007, 03:06 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @lol lollipops: I'm not so sure about never te...   Jun 13 2007, 08:38 AM
lol lollipops   QUOTE(XRosesXAreXBlackXX @ Jun 13 2007, 09...   Jun 14 2007, 08:42 PM
RyanWasHere   Obviously you think there is something wrong with ...   Jun 13 2007, 05:14 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 06:14 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 11:28 AM
MyMichelle   ^ What the f**k. Are you stupid? It's her moth...   Jun 13 2007, 05:17 PM
RyanWasHere   I'm sorry that your small Asian mind could not...   Jun 13 2007, 05:59 PM
steve330   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 05:59 PM...   Jun 13 2007, 06:13 PM
MyMichelle   I'm sorry that you're dumb-as-shit and tha...   Jun 13 2007, 06:09 PM
RyanWasHere   Don't get to excited. All worked up over a fo...   Jun 13 2007, 06:14 PM
MyMichelle   *Gangster. I don't need an e-tissue. At leas...   Jun 13 2007, 06:17 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 13 2007, 06:17 PM)...   Jun 13 2007, 06:19 PM
MyMichelle   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 06:19 PM...   Jun 13 2007, 06:21 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 13 2007, 06:21 PM)...   Jun 13 2007, 06:24 PM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @RyanWasHere: I'd appreciate itif you would st...   Jun 13 2007, 06:20 PM
seonho   AHAHAAA WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU RYAN AHHHH WHY IS EV...   Jun 13 2007, 07:46 PM
RyanWasHere   I dunno really, I'm in a bad mood.   Jun 13 2007, 07:47 PM
Chicago   i say you tell her.. she should like you for who y...   Jun 13 2007, 08:39 PM
MyMichelle   LMAO even SeonHo called you (RyanWasHere) out...   Jun 13 2007, 09:30 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 13 2007, 09:30 PM)...   Jun 13 2007, 10:31 PM
steve330   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 10:31 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 01:27 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 14 2007, 01:27 PM) O...   Jun 14 2007, 07:47 PM
MyMichelle   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 14 2007, 07:47 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 09:22 PM
steve330   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 14 2007, 07:47 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 11:16 PM
stolen   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 11:31 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 02:11 PM
davinci   Hahaha. Damn. Ryan, you need to chill. To the or...   Jun 13 2007, 10:39 PM
cupcakex   MyMichelle, he doesn't even deserve the title ...   Jun 14 2007, 03:25 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   **Trying to pretend that the current argument isn...   Jun 14 2007, 07:28 AM
Mercy   Hmmm my opinion is a little different from the oth...   Jun 14 2007, 09:08 AM
tilanguyenar   I typed you problem in google, and look what I fou...   Jun 14 2007, 11:48 AM
kimjaydot   Your her daughter she should love you no matter wh...   Jun 14 2007, 11:50 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @Mercy: I definately know what you mean in that se...   Jun 14 2007, 01:06 PM
JoanOfArc   I think you just need to sit her down and talk to ...   Jun 14 2007, 01:43 PM
steve330   Actually she can disown her. Adoption is always a...   Jun 14 2007, 02:02 PM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   I don't think she would go as far as disowning...   Jun 14 2007, 03:13 PM
stolen   QUOTE(XRosesXAreXBlackXX @ Jun 14 2007, 04...   Jun 14 2007, 07:38 PM
xburnoutx00   lolzzz @ this thread.   Jun 14 2007, 06:20 PM
Youraisemeup   Wow.. That Ryan guy is... well.... full of himself...   Jun 14 2007, 08:09 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(Youraisemeup @ Jun 14 2007, 08:09 P...   Jun 14 2007, 08:49 PM
lol lollipops   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 14 2007, 09:49 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 08:54 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(lol lollipops @ Jun 14 2007, 08:54 ...   Jun 14 2007, 08:57 PM
RyanWasHere   Your weak ass attempts at some how trying to embar...   Jun 14 2007, 09:24 PM
xburnoutx00   Well, nobody is perfect.   Jun 14 2007, 11:23 PM
RyanWasHere   I'm over this thread. DONE ARGUING.   Jun 14 2007, 11:38 PM
cupcakex   ^ I'm sure you'll check back.   Jun 15 2007, 04:20 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   Well, now that the arguing is [hopefully] done for...   Jun 15 2007, 08:41 AM
steve330   Are you going to tell her? Or are you going to wa...   Jun 15 2007, 09:42 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   The second one, most likely.   Jun 15 2007, 11:10 AM


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