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Help, please?, My mom's kinda homophobic but....
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post Jun 12 2007, 05:18 PM
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I'm bisexual, but my mom is, like, a complete homophobe.I don't know what I should do. :/ I haven't told her yet, because I'm not sure about how she'll react...Like, I don't think she'll hate me or anything, but...I honestly have no idea what she would do if she found out.

Help me??

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btw Sorry if there's already a topic like this that I missed.>_<
 
 
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*Mercy*
post Jun 14 2007, 09:08 AM
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Hmmm my opinion is a little different from the others.I am bisexual,And my mum is a f**king homophobic/nazi catholic.I have yet to come out to her.

Homophobics are very very hard to try and get their opinions to change.Reason being that they literaly have a "Phobia" or strong hatred/dislike for homosexuals.Even if you did try and explain..they still will no longer see you as the same daughter they will see you as "one of them".Its a sad truth.

This is my main reason why i have yet to come out.But then again i have never had a good relationship with my mum.
So thats jsut my advice about it.If you have never really had a great relationship with your mum in the first place,or if shes really really overprotective.Its best not to come out jsut yet.

But you can always try if you feel ready too and dont care what the hell she thinks.
 

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XRosesXAreXBlackXX   Help, please?   Jun 12 2007, 05:18 PM
RyanWasHere   Stop being a fag, and move on.   Jun 12 2007, 06:19 PM
Cujiine   ^ ok that doesn't help at all... Anyways. Jus...   Jun 12 2007, 06:30 PM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @RyanWasHere: Wow, thank you for that completely p...   Jun 12 2007, 06:32 PM
RyanWasHere   ^ & thank you for adding to the fag population...   Jun 12 2007, 07:09 PM
xburnoutx00   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 12 2007, 07:09 PM...   Jun 12 2007, 08:40 PM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @RyanWasHere: Thank you for adding to the Homophob...   Jun 12 2007, 07:32 PM
lol lollipops   Since you don't know how she'd react, I wo...   Jun 12 2007, 08:48 PM
MyMichelle   You don't need to necessarily tell your mom th...   Jun 12 2007, 11:39 PM
RyanWasHere   My opinion on how to help are just as valid as any...   Jun 13 2007, 02:22 AM
alysaphobia   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 03:22 PM...   Jun 13 2007, 03:31 AM
cupcakex   I think you should wait a little while. If you...   Jun 13 2007, 03:06 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @lol lollipops: I'm not so sure about never te...   Jun 13 2007, 08:38 AM
lol lollipops   QUOTE(XRosesXAreXBlackXX @ Jun 13 2007, 09...   Jun 14 2007, 08:42 PM
RyanWasHere   Obviously you think there is something wrong with ...   Jun 13 2007, 05:14 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 06:14 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 11:28 AM
MyMichelle   ^ What the f**k. Are you stupid? It's her moth...   Jun 13 2007, 05:17 PM
RyanWasHere   I'm sorry that your small Asian mind could not...   Jun 13 2007, 05:59 PM
steve330   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 05:59 PM...   Jun 13 2007, 06:13 PM
MyMichelle   I'm sorry that you're dumb-as-shit and tha...   Jun 13 2007, 06:09 PM
RyanWasHere   Don't get to excited. All worked up over a fo...   Jun 13 2007, 06:14 PM
MyMichelle   *Gangster. I don't need an e-tissue. At leas...   Jun 13 2007, 06:17 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 13 2007, 06:17 PM)...   Jun 13 2007, 06:19 PM
MyMichelle   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 06:19 PM...   Jun 13 2007, 06:21 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 13 2007, 06:21 PM)...   Jun 13 2007, 06:24 PM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @RyanWasHere: I'd appreciate itif you would st...   Jun 13 2007, 06:20 PM
seonho   AHAHAAA WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU RYAN AHHHH WHY IS EV...   Jun 13 2007, 07:46 PM
RyanWasHere   I dunno really, I'm in a bad mood.   Jun 13 2007, 07:47 PM
Chicago   i say you tell her.. she should like you for who y...   Jun 13 2007, 08:39 PM
MyMichelle   LMAO even SeonHo called you (RyanWasHere) out...   Jun 13 2007, 09:30 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 13 2007, 09:30 PM)...   Jun 13 2007, 10:31 PM
steve330   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 10:31 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 01:27 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 14 2007, 01:27 PM) O...   Jun 14 2007, 07:47 PM
MyMichelle   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 14 2007, 07:47 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 09:22 PM
steve330   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 14 2007, 07:47 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 11:16 PM
stolen   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 13 2007, 11:31 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 02:11 PM
davinci   Hahaha. Damn. Ryan, you need to chill. To the or...   Jun 13 2007, 10:39 PM
cupcakex   MyMichelle, he doesn't even deserve the title ...   Jun 14 2007, 03:25 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   **Trying to pretend that the current argument isn...   Jun 14 2007, 07:28 AM
Mercy   Hmmm my opinion is a little different from the oth...   Jun 14 2007, 09:08 AM
tilanguyenar   I typed you problem in google, and look what I fou...   Jun 14 2007, 11:48 AM
kimjaydot   Your her daughter she should love you no matter wh...   Jun 14 2007, 11:50 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   @Mercy: I definately know what you mean in that se...   Jun 14 2007, 01:06 PM
JoanOfArc   I think you just need to sit her down and talk to ...   Jun 14 2007, 01:43 PM
steve330   Actually she can disown her. Adoption is always a...   Jun 14 2007, 02:02 PM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   I don't think she would go as far as disowning...   Jun 14 2007, 03:13 PM
stolen   QUOTE(XRosesXAreXBlackXX @ Jun 14 2007, 04...   Jun 14 2007, 07:38 PM
xburnoutx00   lolzzz @ this thread.   Jun 14 2007, 06:20 PM
Youraisemeup   Wow.. That Ryan guy is... well.... full of himself...   Jun 14 2007, 08:09 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(Youraisemeup @ Jun 14 2007, 08:09 P...   Jun 14 2007, 08:49 PM
lol lollipops   QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 14 2007, 09:49 PM...   Jun 14 2007, 08:54 PM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(lol lollipops @ Jun 14 2007, 08:54 ...   Jun 14 2007, 08:57 PM
RyanWasHere   Your weak ass attempts at some how trying to embar...   Jun 14 2007, 09:24 PM
xburnoutx00   Well, nobody is perfect.   Jun 14 2007, 11:23 PM
RyanWasHere   I'm over this thread. DONE ARGUING.   Jun 14 2007, 11:38 PM
cupcakex   ^ I'm sure you'll check back.   Jun 15 2007, 04:20 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   Well, now that the arguing is [hopefully] done for...   Jun 15 2007, 08:41 AM
steve330   Are you going to tell her? Or are you going to wa...   Jun 15 2007, 09:42 AM
XRosesXAreXBlackXX   The second one, most likely.   Jun 15 2007, 11:10 AM


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