so what do u think?, throw out situations your in and give and recieve advice. Options

[volcom02]

so me and my bf have been in well let me break it down
we gawt ina fite a couple of days ago and we havn't
been on speaking terms since then. so i decide enoughs
enough this is totally lame! so i call him a little while
ago to try and mend some broken ends cuz well i miss him.

so here is the convo. the whole 1m 39s

him:Hello

me:Hello

him:yea?

me:Do u want to talk?

him:Idk?

me:How can u not know?

him:Well i mean we have a lot to talk about.

me:yea i know thats why i called.

him:ok, well im on the other line can i'll call you back in like 20 mins.

me:[Pause]

him:is that o.k

me:[clears throat] uhm... yea.

him:well do u want me to?

me:yea

him:akright be shure to pick up.

me:alright

him:bye

[click]

me:bye..



so yea there you go what am i too make of this?

• i mean does he really wanna fix things?
• or is WHO EVER he is talking to on the other line more important than our relationship?
• do i answer his call?
• do i give him shyt for making me wait?

please help!

[cupcakex]

Man, if I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex-girlfriend, I'd dump in in half a second. But, that's because her &I have a past. She tried to break us up, and I kicked her ass, and a lot of stupid immature shit. But, whatever.

Personally, you should tell him just how f**ked up it is, that he was talking to her. Don't act like you're not upset, because he might think it's ok, and do it again. It may be completely innocent, but that doesn't mean you should just ignore it.

As far as the fight goes, don't get too worked up about it. It's probably something that can just blow over. Just, don't be afraid to let go of your pride, and apologize first.