My boyfriends,bestfriend. Options

[misfit]

Ok my boyfriend's bestfriend is a girl.They have been bestfriends for about 7 or more years.They are both 20.And she has a boyfriend also who she seems to really be in love with.I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and we love eachother and what not,but when my boyfriend comments her on myspace saying stuff like hey gorgeous,and i miss you and love you lots and stuff,it makes me feel like shit.I mean i'm his girlfriend,not her..I wish he didn't speak to her that way..I mean do you find that normal?I mean he talks to me just about the same way..It makes me feel like i'm second best.I just haven't known a friendship like that,where they are so close and speak to eachother in a lovingly type way.I just find it weird.

And his other girl bestfriend,there was a photo of him and her in his bed together,on her myspace and I just went nuts.Yet I didn't realise she has a few other photos like that with her in another guy friends bed and he also has a girlfriend..We've sorted all that out but his guy friend saw the photo and said Oh sweet hit on her....I guess he was joking but how do I know that??

Ahhhhhhhhhh I wish my boyfriend just didnt have girl bestfriends..They have made me feel unwelcome from the start..He defends them no matter what and I feel like they are so much more important than me..Sorry that this is so long.

[misfit]

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sorta have told him but he says he never calls them that,i spose some of the comments are old but still we were going out then..I'd just come across them thats all and it made me feel like shit..I have brought it up before but I can't remember what was said,I spose he doesnt really call her gorgeous anymore but you know ive noticed he's called her sexy and stuff..

I know they joke around but how do i know he is joking?And theres a photo of his two girl bestfriends and he commented it saying "never the less beautiful" and i do remember bringing that up but he's like what am i meant to say,ugly?I was like its not as if you have to comment them..Then he said,she commented me so I commented her back.. I dunno just reading the comments honestly made me feel like crap..And also my boyfriend had a photo of him and I as his default but then she commented it and said i love this picture its my favourite..So then he changed his default to that pic,I wasl ike so you just change it because of what she said and he was like uhh no..I forgot i had that photo until she said something and i like it.

And then she sent him a message and at the end she wrote"freakin hot pic by the way".Also I noticed they were joking around about a photo where they looked like they were kissing..Which I have not seen.And he was like oops i slipped,they were joking but god...It seems as if they flirt and not only that she snet him a heap of photos of herself and a photo of her and his other girl bestfriend kissing and she was like is ent it to everyone...

Anyway whatever..I cant believe she said that im obsessing over it all and shes like you think about me all the time,if the world doesnt revolve around me then why do you keep sending me messages.She just dones't get it,i freakin sent her messages coz she asked me to tell her what my problems were with her.So i did GRR.I know this sounds all confusing..I'm a little confused myself.My boyfriend and I had a fight today because of it,its as if he can't see why anyone doesn't like her...I dunno im just thinking ill leave it all seriously..Just avoid her ads much as I can I guess..Makes me feel so shit though how he sometimes speaks to her..
I'm really paranoid,aren't i ?Lol.