What's necessary Options

[dpl313]

I have a friend. I'm 20 she's 19. I like her. I really care about her. I hinted towards it, she gave me her number, etc. We were scheduled to go out on a date, but her grandmother died. I'm not worried about the date. I'm more concerned about if she's ok, and what can I do as a friend to show her I genuinely care that she's ok. I called her home twice in one day. I spoke to this person who sounded like my friend to some extent, and the person was really angry. I left a voicemail too. I've been wondering how much time and space should I give her? What should be done on my part? My guy friend is suggesting I go to her job and see her. Which I do every now and then. My female friends are saying give her 2 weeks to a month. I have no idea what to do. I just feel like I'm being shut out.

[cupcakex]

Tell her you're there for her, obviously. But, don't turn it into you just being a friend. Like, after the whole thing blows over, you don't want her to 'love you like a brother'. So, be there for her, but don't be afraid to make a move, if the mood is right.