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 Jun 12 2007, 09:05 PM
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I have a friend. I'm 20 she's 19. I like her. I really care about her. I hinted towards it, she gave me her number, etc. We were scheduled to go out on a date, but her grandmother died. I'm not worried about the date. I'm more concerned about if she's ok, and what can I do as a friend to show her I genuinely care that she's ok. I called her home twice in one day. I spoke to this person who sounded like my friend to some extent, and the person was really angry. I left a voicemail too. I've been wondering how much time and space should I give her? What should be done on my part? My guy friend is suggesting I go to her job and see her. Which I do every now and then. My female friends are saying give her 2 weeks to a month. I have no idea what to do. I just feel like I'm being shut out.
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Jun 12 2007, 09:54 PM
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Just let her know that if she needs to talk that you're there and reassure her that you're there for her every now and then.
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dpl313 What's necessary Jun 12 2007, 09:05 PM
sweetest-emotion hmm thats a toughie. well as a 19yr old girl mysel... Jun 12 2007, 09:54 PM UniversalRoyalty ^ That's great advice.
Call her, let her know... Jun 12 2007, 10:31 PM PrinCesse I would say to send her a card saying that you are... Jun 13 2007, 01:49 AM cupcakex Tell her you're there for her, obviously. But,... Jun 13 2007, 03:02 AM Chicago tell her how you feel, and make her feel comfortab... Jun 13 2007, 08:56 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(Chicago @ Jun 13 2007, 09:56 PM) te... Jun 14 2007, 11:41 AM concreteangel Dont suffocate her. Just give her some time. Jun 13 2007, 09:00 PM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX If you give her 2 weeks to a month to settle down ... Jun 14 2007, 11:41 AM kimjaydot Support her and give her all the care that she nee... Jun 14 2007, 11:43 AM |
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