My boyfriends,bestfriend. |
 Jun 12 2007, 09:48 AM
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Ok my boyfriend's bestfriend is a girl.They have been bestfriends for about 7 or more years.They are both 20.And she has a boyfriend also who she seems to really be in love with.I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and we love eachother and what not,but when my boyfriend comments her on myspace saying stuff like hey gorgeous,and i miss you and love you lots and stuff,it makes me feel like shit.I mean i'm his girlfriend,not her..I wish he didn't speak to her that way..I mean do you find that normal?I mean he talks to me just about the same way..It makes me feel like i'm second best.I just haven't known a friendship like that,where they are so close and speak to eachother in a lovingly type way.I just find it weird.
And his other girl bestfriend,there was a photo of him and her in his bed together,on her myspace and I just went nuts.Yet I didn't realise she has a few other photos like that with her in another guy friends bed and he also has a girlfriend..We've sorted all that out but his guy friend saw the photo and said Oh sweet hit on her....I guess he was joking but how do I know that?? Ahhhhhhhhhh I wish my boyfriend just didnt have girl bestfriends..They have made me feel unwelcome from the start..He defends them no matter what and I feel like they are so much more important than me..Sorry that this is so long. |
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Jun 12 2007, 06:38 PM
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You need to talk to him about this stuff. Let him know that you want the words that he says to you, "Love you, gorgeous" to actually mean something instead of just being a casual phrase thrown about. Also tell him you don't like the pictures of him in bed with another girl. Doesn't matter if he's naked or wearing 30 layers of clothing. He shouldn't be in another girl's bed under any circumstances.
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misfit My boyfriends,bestfriend. Jun 12 2007, 09:48 AM
sillywabit yes, that very normal. you love him and that cuase... Jun 12 2007, 09:49 AM synkro yah, those situations always take some getting use... Jun 12 2007, 10:04 AM
littleswallow QUOTE(synkro @ Jun 12 2007, 11:04 PM) yah... Jun 12 2007, 10:19 AM Chicago QUOTE(synkro @ Jun 12 2007, 11:04 AM) yah... Jun 13 2007, 08:52 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(synkro @ Jun 12 2007, 11:04 AM) yah... Jun 15 2007, 11:27 AM jeSs1cA I agree with the others. If you want to make your ... Jun 12 2007, 03:28 PM TechnicolorEmu This is quite normal, I feel. One of my bestfrien... Jun 12 2007, 03:55 PM RyanWasHere Murder his girl friends, done and done... Jun 12 2007, 04:34 PM MyMichelle QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 12 2007, 04:34 PM... Jun 12 2007, 11:43 PM cupcakex I wouldn't put up with it. You need to tell hi... Jun 13 2007, 02:59 AM misfit I sorta have told him but he says he never calls t... Jun 13 2007, 04:33 AM MyMichelle I say you break up with him.
Seriously. Your boyf... Jun 13 2007, 07:24 AM misfit QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 13 2007, 10:24 PM)... Jun 13 2007, 10:29 AM MyMichelle QUOTE(misfit @ Jun 13 2007, 10:29 AM) Wha... Jun 13 2007, 10:42 AM misfit QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 14 2007, 01:42 AM)... Jun 13 2007, 09:05 PM littleswallow QUOTE(misfit @ Jun 14 2007, 10:05 AM) I s... Jun 15 2007, 07:50 PM synkro after your second post, i see that you've alre... Jun 13 2007, 09:13 AM alysaphobia Ack, I hate these kinds of situations! It... Jun 13 2007, 09:24 AM xxlipglossxx You have a right to be suspicious/jealous! I c... Jun 13 2007, 10:31 AM cupcakex Maybe you should let him know just how much he... Jun 13 2007, 10:48 AM literemix24 as everybody said, talk to him about if you dont l... Jun 15 2007, 07:55 PM spongeboblover You just got to realize his friends were there bef... Jun 15 2007, 11:09 PM malimars ahah! me and my guy bestfriend are just like t... Jun 16 2007, 02:56 AM synkro QUOTE(malimars @ Jun 15 2007, 11:56 PM) a... Jun 16 2007, 06:50 AM malimars QUOTE(synkro @ Jun 16 2007, 07:50 AM) i a... Jun 17 2007, 02:14 AM morgy605 There is nothing a little odd about confiding in s... Jun 16 2007, 07:38 AM ladysovereigna Here, here they are:
REMOVED Jun 16 2007, 10:22 AM RyanWasHere Just go with my suggestion. Jun 16 2007, 03:02 PM |
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