where do you draw the line?, for those of you like me, who dont want to have sex til marriage Options

[fathomlessdame]

(btw, i've decided to stay with him and that i kno eventually he will trust me. the good times with him are too great to give up...)

but where do you draw the line during those alone times with your bf/gf when you want to wait to have sex?

i dont want to do the dirty with him just because i dont want to run the risk of getting pregnant cuz even with condoms and birth control, theres still a tiny risk that i dont want to take. therefore i am waiting.

but idk where to draw the line between what i want to do and can safely do and then what i want to do but know it will lead down a path i dont want to take yet.

so where would you guys draw that line?

[*steve330*]

If you're so worried wait til you're 18 and can make your own medical decisions and get an abortion if something completely unexpected comes about. Get the abortion good an early so you don't have to worry about the guild trip of killing "something that's alive OOOOooOO". That and you can get yourself on birth control which is pretty damn effective.