where do you draw the line?, for those of you like me, who dont want to have sex til marriage Options

[fathomlessdame]

(btw, i've decided to stay with him and that i kno eventually he will trust me. the good times with him are too great to give up...)

but where do you draw the line during those alone times with your bf/gf when you want to wait to have sex?

i dont want to do the dirty with him just because i dont want to run the risk of getting pregnant cuz even with condoms and birth control, theres still a tiny risk that i dont want to take. therefore i am waiting.

but idk where to draw the line between what i want to do and can safely do and then what i want to do but know it will lead down a path i dont want to take yet.

so where would you guys draw that line?

[manaway]

Guys sex is not badis not like o my god im going to get pregnant if you do it its not that its very hard to get pregnant sometimes things happen and you get pregnant but trust me its very hard i was stupid for a while and my girlfriend and i never used a condom and she was not on birth control either i loved her and if she did have a baby i would have been fine with it i would have taken care of it but if you do have sex you know just make sure your both ready for the consequences if there is any