Would you just deal or leave them?, I'm sick of hearing this from him... |
 May 28 2007, 07:19 PM
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Ok well a LONG time ago like two years ago, One of my friends got with another one of my friends (two years difference) and everything was great until 8th grade when she decided to go "emo" so since she couldn't bring razors to school, she would bring tic tac boxes and then break then and scratch herself with the pieces. But she sit there with the piece over her wrist and stare at one of our other friends and wait for them to look back at her before she'd start scratching her. She also came up with this stupid story about being afraid of telephones. Which I know wasn't true because she'd always take our cell phones and call people with them and have no problem. She would also get annoyed at me or someone when they said they were in love with someone because "It's not real love it's just hormones" and then she'd turn right around and say she was in love with her boyfriend. She would just get on our nerves so much and I couldn't get why her boyfriend put up with it all. So would you put up with it or leave them? I still wanna be friends with her and we got past all of that but her boyfriend keeps asking me if he did the right thing by staying with her and ignoring it.
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Jun 1 2007, 01:03 AM
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If I was her boyfriend, I would indeed leave her. From your perspective, this relationship is causing him stress. He is even questioning it.
Is this "boyfriend" a friend of yours? I'm not sure, but it is a possibility that he wants your "say-so" to leave her. He may want to leave her, but keep you as a friend. Perhaps he is afraid that if he were to dump her outright, he would lose you as a friend. (sorry if that is a little off topic) In addition, I would suggest that you seek help for your friend. Self- mutilation is not healthy, she needs help but can't seem to get it for herself. She needs you, as a friend, to seek that for her. I know, she may dislike you for doing that, but it's for the best, and you should know that. After receiving help, and with time, she will come to appreciate what you did for her. |
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Cujiine Would you just deal or leave them? May 28 2007, 07:19 PM
th5418 If you don't want to be friends with her, then... May 28 2007, 07:29 PM steve330 that or she does in fact want to be her friend whi... May 28 2007, 07:58 PM th5418 I'm a pessimistic person. May 28 2007, 07:58 PM lilxl0ser she sounds fake to me. i wouldn't want to befr... May 28 2007, 08:11 PM freeflow I don't see why her boyfriend is asking you wh... May 28 2007, 09:28 PM UniversalRoyalty She could be going through a phase, like Toya said... May 28 2007, 09:32 PM Cujiine ell know see I've known her for six+ years and... May 28 2007, 11:41 PM &/degradanca. I would leave.
I don't know... she just doesn... May 29 2007, 12:59 AM
Cujiine QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ May 28 2007, 10... May 29 2007, 06:12 PM XxSugarKisses_TeddyHugsxX Seems to me like she just wants attention. I would... May 29 2007, 03:40 PM jello(: I had a similar so-called 'friend'. She wo... May 31 2007, 05:48 PM Cujiine ^Actually, When she did break up with him, he clun... Jun 1 2007, 10:35 PM |
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