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 May 30 2007, 07:20 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3  Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502  |
Haven't been on a bit, some stuff came up, talking about making me eat my words about the whole don't usually use a condom and never got my girl pregnant...she told me today she took a pregnancy test and it's positive, she's gonna tell her aunt because her mom won't understand and im going to go with her to get the abortion
 I have mixed emotions about the whole thing...
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May 30 2007, 10:44 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
well....you probably wont like my opinion. but you guys made the mistake of having sex without protection before you were ready to have a kid... its not the childs fault that you two made a mistake. he/she shouldnt have to suffer because of you. think of it this way, if she gets an abortion, she's ending a life. she's keeping a child from living...from experiancing life: the good and the bad. if she is actually pregnant, there is a life inside of her. a life that doesnt share her exact same dna. a life that is not hers to take away.
personally, i dont think she should get an abortion mainly because i dont believe its the right thing to do. abortion is only an acceptable option if being pregnant could in a way kill her or if she was raped... but thats my beliefs. idc (well i guess i do cuz it saddens me that some1 could take it lightly) but its her choice, both of you guys' choice what to do i only encourage you to look up everything you can about abortions and make sure you know that there are things that could happen. a lot of risks come with it and many people become depressed after having an abortion. one of my friends miscarried and she feels so horrible about it even tho she didnt really want the child and it wasnt her fault, how would she feel if she made a consious decision? but look everything up. consider adoption. |
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May 31 2007, 02:59 PM
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QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ May 30 2007, 11:44 PM)  well....you probably wont like my opinion. but you guys made the mistake of having sex without protection before you were ready to have a kid... its not the childs fault that you two made a mistake. he/she shouldnt have to suffer because of you. think of it this way, if she gets an abortion, she's ending a life. she's keeping a child from living...from experiancing life: the good and the bad. if she is actually pregnant, there is a life inside of her. a life that doesnt share her exact same dna. a life that is not hers to take away. personally, i dont think she should get an abortion mainly because i dont believe its the right thing to do. abortion is only an acceptable option if being pregnant could in a way kill her or if she was raped... but thats my beliefs. idc (well i guess i do cuz it saddens me that some1 could take it lightly) but its her choice, both of you guys' choice what to do i only encourage you to look up everything you can about abortions and make sure you know that there are things that could happen. a lot of risks come with it and many people become depressed after having an abortion. one of my friends miscarried and she feels so horrible about it even tho she didnt really want the child and it wasnt her fault, how would she feel if she made a consious decision? but look everything up. consider adoption. I agree. It isn't this child's fault that you made some bad decisions. You shouldn't be stealing it's life just to benefit yourselves... how selfish. |
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RyanWasHere Pregnancy May 30 2007, 07:20 PM
Hashbrown what exactly are your views on abortion? May 30 2007, 07:25 PM AngelicEyz00 How long have you been with your girlfriend?
As l... May 30 2007, 07:27 PM
XxSugarKisses_TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ May 30 2007, 08:27 P... May 31 2007, 06:36 AM AngelicEyz00 When did her last period start? May 30 2007, 07:30 PM breakingdawn I think that at your age aborting the baby is your... May 30 2007, 07:31 PM RyanWasHere I'm not really sure but we got into a fight an... May 30 2007, 07:34 PM AngelicEyz00 I have another question, haha.
Did you not pull o... May 30 2007, 07:40 PM RyanWasHere QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ May 30 2007, 07:40 P... May 30 2007, 07:43 PM th5418 ... Wow. May 30 2007, 07:51 PM RyanWasHere QUOTE(th5418 @ May 30 2007, 07:51 PM) ...... May 30 2007, 07:51 PM AngelicEyz00 Wow, so you just got lucky. May 30 2007, 08:37 PM Rachelislove I might be in the same situation as you. I am late... May 30 2007, 08:41 PM AngelicEyz00 Take another test ASAP, Rachel!
//I learned m... May 30 2007, 08:47 PM Rachel QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ May 30 2007, 06:47 P... May 31 2007, 04:48 AM Elba QUOTE(Rachel @ May 31 2007, 02:48 AM) Fir... May 31 2007, 11:25 AM Rachel QUOTE(Elba @ May 31 2007, 09:25 AM) Yay. ... May 31 2007, 01:30 PM AngelicEyz00 I was going to continue with the pregnancy, but I ... May 30 2007, 09:07 PM queeniexD QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ May 30 2007, 10:07 P... May 31 2007, 01:21 PM RyanWasHere QUOTE(x_y0urElectrikk @ May 31 2007, 02:5... May 31 2007, 04:05 PM fathomlessdame QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ May 31 2007, 04:05 PM... May 31 2007, 04:59 PM Rachel QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ May 31 2007, 02:59... May 31 2007, 05:01 PM mynocturnal QUOTE(fathomlessdame @ May 30 2007, 11:44... May 31 2007, 03:26 PM RyanWasHere QUOTE(mynocturnal @ May 31 2007, 03:26 PM... May 31 2007, 04:14 PM loveylovely I don't really think abortions are the best th... May 30 2007, 10:51 PM Insurmountable If you both agree that its the right thing to do t... May 30 2007, 11:13 PM beaucoup i think you're doing the right thing.
random... May 30 2007, 11:27 PM Rachelislove QUOTE(beaucoup @ May 30 2007, 09:27 PM) i... May 30 2007, 11:51 PM RyanWasHere QUOTE(Rachelislove @ May 30 2007, 11:51 P... May 31 2007, 12:28 AM alysaphobia Wow, that's tough. I think you're doing t... May 30 2007, 11:31 PM Elba You should take her to go get Medi-Cal so the stat... May 31 2007, 12:47 AM RyanWasHere I was kind of tricked by that I was under the assu... May 31 2007, 11:36 AM Mercy Im so lucky that i cannot have children until Im r... May 31 2007, 02:21 PM fathomlessdame wow, woops. i had read them but i wasnt rememberi... May 31 2007, 05:04 PM spongebob lover dont get an abortion
just put the kid up for adopt... Jun 1 2007, 08:24 PM Jonazn1 This is quite an interesting topic. I know you may... Jun 1 2007, 08:52 PM Rachel There is a topic in debate already, post your shit... Jun 1 2007, 08:54 PM fathomlessdame well i suppose the best he can do is support her t... Jun 1 2007, 09:45 PM Cujiine Well as long as you two agree then I suppose it... Jun 1 2007, 10:43 PM Rachel QUOTE(Cujiine @ Jun 1 2007, 08:43 PM) Wel... Jun 2 2007, 01:10 PM steve330 @Anti-Abortion people, Go away. He has all the ri... Jun 3 2007, 10:09 AM |
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